CAN I MASTURBATE IF I FEAR ZINA?? - KNOWLEDGE CORNER (2018-09-19)

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Summary of CAN I MASTURBATE IF I FEAR ZINA?? - KNOWLEDGE CORNER

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The narrator discusses the issue of masturbation in Islam and offers a few possible solutions for those struggling with sexual desires. He also advises that if someone cannot get married, he should fast.

00:00:00 The chef discusses the ruling on masturbation and offers a few possible remedies for a Muslim struggling with sexual desires. He also discusses the issue of marriage and how it has become difficult in the West.

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00:15:00 The narrator discusses the possible health benefits of masturbation and provides a few examples of where the Quran mentions it. He also advises that if someone cannot get married, he should fast.

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0:00:04 [Music]0:00:16 [Music]0:00:31 [Music]0:00:41 Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato 0:00:44 and welcome to the knowledge corner 0:00:45 we're here joined with the chef and 0:00:47 Hameroff man hydrogen handle mm very 0:00:52 good 0:00:53 well we've got some questions hem dinner 0:00:55 as well some questions we need to ask 0:00:56 you which I actually haven't myself I've 0:00:59 just been given these questions by by 0:01:02 the production team and we're gonna read 0:01:04 it insha'Allah I'm gonna see what you're 0:01:06 gonna say about it okay so this is 0:01:07 Salaam aleykum brother / sister I would 0:01:10 like to remain anonymous Jessica laughs 0:01:12 Aaron I'm an 18 year old Muslim I just 0:01:15 started to recently practice properly my 0:01:19 religion praying five times a day etc 0:01:21 and left behind life of regular sins and 0:01:25 asked for forgiveness and hamdulillah 0:01:26 I'm 18 years old and of course my sexual 0:01:29 desires are sky-high I do not want to 0:01:32 masturbate and I know III we are advised 0:01:39 by the Prophet to either fast I think 0:01:42 right now it's impossible for me to get 0:01:46 married because of my age mainly and 0:01:49 other reasons I can't fast so often 0:01:51 because of reasons like college / work 0:01:54 etc and it was possible but you know I'm 0:01:57 getting yeah you know no I'm getting it 0:02:01 you know wearing yes yeah I was 0:02:04 wondering what was the ruling on 0:02:06 masturbation why is it forbidden and how 0:02:08 can one go about releasing the sexual 0:02:11 energy especially as a young Muslim 0:02:12 jalan jalan Amin sallallaahu Stella 0:02:16 Mubarak or Abdullah Hassan nabina 0:02:17 muhammad or either and he also they 0:02:18 remain and the back the questioner he he 0:02:21 mentioned a number of issues regarding 0:02:22 this method of this issue and and it 0:02:26 firstly 0:02:26 regarded the hokum or the ruling on it 0:02:28 he himself knows it as he mentioned 0:02:30 everybody he said I and I quote I know 0:02:32 it's Haram right all right yeah but then 0:02:35 he asks I know it's Haram so he 0:02:36 mentioned the ruling on it and that's 0:02:38 enough for us the dope until hamdullah 0:02:39 he's done my job for me essentially and 0:02:42 this is of course according to the vast 0:02:44 majority of of the scholars but there 0:02:47 was another thing I noticed and that he 0:02:50 dismissed a few remedies to this 0:02:53 or to this problem that he's facing or 0:02:55 the question is facing very easily and I 0:02:58 believe this was unjust in a certain 0:02:59 extent so very he dismissed for example 0:03:02 possible remedies such as fasting oh he 0:03:04 mentioned that fasting is hard due to 0:03:05 college yeah the reality is that fasting 0:03:08 is not hot and fasting in its nature is 0:03:10 there is some kind of difficulty in it 0:03:11 this is the whole purpose of see I'm a 0:03:13 fasting this is a type of difficulty or 0:03:15 mashallah that 0:03:17 the Sharia has accommodated and done 0:03:19 done active all for its accommodated to 0:03:22 a certain extent so yes there is slight 0:03:24 difficulty but it is something that as a 0:03:26 Navy similarly who seldom mentioned 0:03:28 himself it is a cure for someone who is 0:03:30 unable to marry from the hadith of even 0:03:32 our best motive for nearly agreed upon 0:03:33 sorry Bukhari Muslim what man let me 0:03:36 just stop there and whomsoever cannot 0:03:37 marry verily he was so and let him fast 0:03:40 in the whole of what we do because it 0:03:42 will literally remove this and of course 0:03:44 the scholars they forgot had either 0:03:45 school explained how did they differ and 0:03:47 understanding of this world would yeah 0:03:48 but many of them state that it would 0:03:50 literally refrain this remove the sexual 0:03:54 desire and kind of problems that he this 0:03:56 questioner is facing so it's not 0:03:58 something that should be dismissed this 0:03:59 easily in my opinion okay and yeah you 0:04:02 might find it difficult at first panel 0:04:03 ah but after a while you become a habit 0:04:05 and known from your sharla not only 0:04:07 would you find a removing this 0:04:08 particular aspect but you'll find 0:04:09 yourself coming closer to Allah you 0:04:11 would find your next purifying you'll 0:04:13 find the tuck ball in you which is why 0:04:14 fast and has been legislated in the 0:04:15 first place it will start to develop 0:04:17 within yourself mm-hmm so this was the 0:04:20 first thing I believe he dismissed quite 0:04:21 easily the second thing I'm not he 0:04:23 mentions orifice of your view the 0:04:24 question I'm sorry he dismissed all the 0:04:27 question dismiss quite easily was the 0:04:29 issue of marriage and he said he cannot 0:04:30 America sees oh she the question is 18 0:04:32 years old this is problematic span Allah 0:04:35 and this to be honest it goes to an 0:04:36 issue that you know it's quite deep 0:04:38 rooted within our societies here in the 0:04:39 West which is unfortunately marriage has 0:04:41 become something difficult it's been 0:04:42 made something difficult 0:04:43 possibly unfeasible due to a person's 0:04:45 age why Allahu Alem is it viewed as a 0:04:48 person who's 18 is immature or is it 0:04:51 really hasn't about the material kind of 0:04:53 capabilities culture as well as 0:04:56 problematic I mean these are barriers 0:04:58 that we have to remove these are barren 0:04:59 boundaries that we have to kind of 0:05:00 overcome and make it easier for our 0:05:03 suburban you know brothers and sisters a 0:05:05 young brother to get married and 0:05:06 if not look for facade to fill up there 0:05:10 will be a lot of corruption the earthers 0:05:11 only be some lower I'm still a mentioned 0:05:13 hadith so can you make sure something 0:05:16 about did you had a mess and I'm 0:05:17 struggling it was self because nowadays 0:05:20 I think there's a cultural problem you 0:05:24 could say off because the thing is like 0:05:27 even even in the academic works I'm not 0:05:29 reading a book called civilization its 0:05:31 discontents my Freud very famous Sigmund 0:05:34 Freud Sigmund Freud he wrote book 0:05:36 discontent what he was arguing in the 0:05:38 book was that basically the society has 0:05:40 put so much pressure on us and allow a 0:05:44 is forced us to regulate our lives not 0:05:46 in not in line with what is natural to 0:05:51 us as human beings so again that can be 0:05:53 debated upon what is natural to us 0:05:55 attain this what's the mechanism 0:05:56 employed so the point is like a lot in 0:05:58 liberal societies now what's being said 0:06:00 to us is first one doesn't mean we're 0:06:02 talking about the Fed suppose one 0:06:03 doesn't yeah liberal society has now 0:06:04 we've been told that you know just 0:06:05 experiment of yourself do this there 0:06:07 shouldn't be a taboo topic why are you 0:06:09 making it difficult it comes back to the 0:06:11 issue of ethics and morality yeah how 0:06:13 does one ascertain what's his his anchor 0:06:15 is it from a theist or atheistic about 0:06:18 what I'm trying to say here you 0:06:19 absolutely right with what that point is 0:06:20 that you know under learn Islam or uncas 0:06:24 quite a lot also yeah 0:06:25 Allah so there's gonna be some blossoms 0:06:26 in this in a liberal society you know 0:06:28 yeah and a socially liberal Society it 0:06:31 becomes more increasingly difficult for 0:06:32 people young people to abide by Islamic 0:06:35 principles when they've been taught 0:06:36 everywhere yeah we should be doing this 0:06:38 you just do it huh my perspective just 0:06:41 do it 0:06:41 you know why are you talking about too 0:06:43 much by thinking about it just do it so 0:06:45 how would you address this kind of this 0:06:50 is you know it's it's a very it's a big 0:06:52 question it's a big issue and it needs a 0:06:54 complete a multi-faceted approach and a 0:06:57 completely holistic approach from 0:06:59 academics and an eminent scholar from in 0:07:02 experts among in different disciplines 0:07:04 to kind of address it really and it's 0:07:05 beyond the scope of this of this but I 0:07:08 think one of the most important things 0:07:10 in my opinion and of course this is 0:07:12 relative is to have you know you'd be 0:07:15 proud to mostly do not shy away from 0:07:19 your faith 0:07:19 be proud that allah subhanallah al has 0:07:21 made you a Muslim we've had a logic 0:07:23 Allah has made it slimmer and ho tied to 0:07:26 your religion and understand that which 0:07:28 is pleasing to Allah understand your 0:07:29 purpose once you understand that a Lost 0:07:32 Planet Allah says well Michael told you 0:07:33 no and certainly a boon I haven't 0:07:35 created managing except to worship me 0:07:36 everything in this dunya fades away 0:07:39 because you know your only purpose has 0:07:41 to please Allah panel to add what is it 0:07:43 about what is it brother Mohammed I'm 0:07:46 asking you what is worship what is 0:07:48 worship it's doing Montana come on did 0:07:51 you do in abstaining from that what she 0:07:52 told you 0:07:53 submission it's as real Islam until I 0:07:57 need to find it it's literally anything 0:07:59 that Allah is pleased with where their 0:08:01 speeches actually anything that is a 0:08:03 pleasure for Allah externally internally 0:08:05 it is all pleasing to a lot it is all a 0:08:08 bad it's like what is interesting 0:08:10 ironing because nietzsche himself he 0:08:12 said when there's a why almost any house 0:08:14 possible we have a purpose 0:08:18 i mean any of those things any of those 0:08:21 obstacles what do they be internal or 0:08:24 external they're all very possible and 0:08:26 also like i think there's another 0:08:28 there's another kind of attack which i 0:08:30 want to mention to you as well which is 0:08:31 in the popular discourse especially in 0:08:32 feminist works by the way okay and it's 0:08:34 to do with how religious people talking 0:08:37 roughly lost fifty sixty yeah you know 0:08:39 the second word feminism is the highest 0:08:40 to have religious people conceptualize 0:08:42 masturbation but many people have 0:08:43 written books about this okay and just 0:08:45 to be very very clear you're saying the 0:08:48 ruling is the ruling for men and women 0:08:49 absolutely so there's no differentiation 0:08:51 i mean the principle in the Sharia is a 0:08:54 you know a literary or you know address 0:08:57 is both general two main and female 0:08:59 unless there's an evidence that 0:09:00 stipulates the opposite so anything 0:09:02 addressed in the Sharia in the textual 0:09:04 evidence is applies to both minimum 0:09:05 unless it is clear there's evidence to 0:09:08 to remove them right because one of them 0:09:10 one of the attacks levied against the 0:09:13 Muslims or let's say religious people is 0:09:15 that we're trying to repress suppress 0:09:18 women sexual a woman's sexuality and and 0:09:22 ethics or at the expense of you know 0:09:26 bolstering the man's sexuality its panel 0:09:29 you see so what you're saying is this is 0:09:31 a general rule for 0:09:32 there is no restriction on this panel 0:09:34 and this is this is both a luminosity 0:09:35 arsalan it what you said in the 0:09:37 beginning was that there was some kind 0:09:38 of difference well I said the vast 0:09:42 majority of the of the Faja nearly all 0:09:45 of them say that it is Haram you'll find 0:09:49 some of the hanafis stay that it is 0:09:51 quran disliked but the hannah Fiorella 0:09:53 man themselves have interpreted this 0:09:54 kuraha do this disliked to be kuraha to 0:09:57 premiere it is disliked but in the Haram 0:10:00 cent meaning it is haram to do it how to 0:10:02 do it and this is to do without hard 0:10:04 without a need to do it ok I need to do 0:10:07 it one concave those in need those 0:10:08 precisely so I mean what many of the 0:10:10 scholars mentioned is is first not every 0:10:12 Hodja let's we're going to a bit too 0:10:14 shitty yes so this is the interest in 0:10:23 principle that that which is disliked or 0:10:25 sorry the Hodja - I need it it allows it 0:10:28 makes things that it removes cut off or 0:10:30 something that is disliked in a close it 0:10:32 down to that which is mobile which is 0:10:34 permissible okay and we were delving 0:10:36 slightly into a bit of Maha siddhis 0:10:37 Sharia and the high objective and end of 0:10:39 the of the Sharia and many of the Mikasa 0:10:41 do those on a mouth Mikasa they state 0:10:43 that the Sharia has three distinct 0:10:47 levels m1 which is the little rod 0:10:49 absolutely needs and necessities a 0:10:51 person life or you know literally 0:10:53 depends on this issue and then we have 0:10:55 higher art needs which are slightly less 0:10:56 than this and this is something a person 0:10:58 needs in everyday life and after this we 0:11:00 have issue that are from the tech scene 0:11:01 yet or things that a person needs for 0:11:03 said type of food he likes a low type of 0:11:05 cream from so why did we mention this 0:11:09 form because this would generally apply 0:11:11 here if the hand if he said and we going 0:11:13 into the method slowly if they 0:11:15 understood it as McCraw kuraha tindy 0:11:18 here now the hanafis have a way of 0:11:21 understanding kuraha or something that 0:11:22 is disliked in two ways one is that this 0:11:25 car has in fact something Haram and the 0:11:27 other is that this car is something that 0:11:30 is macro literally disliked 0:11:32 which is not Haram there is no sin but 0:11:35 you get rewarded if you leave it 0:11:36 according to the __ AHA generally this 0:11:38 is the __ understanding of it all 0:11:40 the freaky understanding so we must 0:11:42 ascertain this now we're going to 0:11:43 another issue which is commonly asked 0:11:44 about this and 0:11:45 is if someone and this is something to 0:11:47 __ himself the scholars are filter 0:11:48 spoken about if a person fears that 0:11:50 you'll fall into dinner if he fails 0:11:52 you'll fall into dinner ok so give us a 0:11:54 scenario sorry to be explicit about I 0:11:56 think it's clear if a person fears that 0:11:58 he's going to phone to dinner for 0:12:00 example he's got someone on his phone 0:12:01 and he likes no and she's or he is 0:12:05 interacting with that person so much and 0:12:07 they might be feeling ok well I might 0:12:10 before any do you know she might so here 0:12:12 okay so I believe in Allah doing on his 0:12:14 best that here there's a fear yeah okay 0:12:16 but it's not as if he's actually going 0:12:18 to go and commit this you know he's 0:12:19 going to put on his shoes for exampleif 0:12:21 to go and etc etc so here this a fit and 0:12:25 it's a fear that is October meaning it's 0:12:27 a realistic fear it's not why me it's 0:12:29 not just make it up in his head 0:12:30 seriously okay so there's actually 0:12:32 legitimate fear 0:12:33 now it's interested to know that yes 0:12:36 many of the __ have stood here that 0:12:39 it is permissible for him to do this if 0:12:43 he feels if he fears and this is a 0:12:45 actual fear however some of the Maliki 0:12:48 and in fact even some of the Hannibal 0:12:50 and others have said that in fact it is 0:12:52 still haram on him it is still held up 0:12:54 if he doesn't he's still sinful under 0:12:56 this can ask a question what we say that 0:12:59 the person is about to leave the house 0:13:00 you know he might be leaving the house 0:13:03 with I'm thinking here there's two is 0:13:06 two things I think has a hell of a fun 0:13:08 no so he's most likely gonna do a [ __ ]0:13:10 here oh he has a keen obviously we say 0:13:12 you're clean is like he's certain that 0:13:13 he's gonna do it then then you can as 0:13:15 the lesser of two evils 0:13:16 we agreed that that's the best thing to 0:13:18 do yeah absolutely absolutely not about 0:13:20 that alone so he's going out now but he 0:13:24 doesn't know for sure but let's say 60%0:13:26 he has there's a chance of him doing it 0:13:28 if there's no other way to free himself 0:13:29 from this action yeah except through 0:13:31 this yeah then it should be done why 0:13:34 half a battery just acaba thoroughly 0:13:37 should be done which is what taking the 0:13:39 lesser of two evils but very not very 0:13:41 might bear in mind I'm a takea 0:13:43 many of them will still firm on their 0:13:45 principles that is person is still 0:13:46 committing out this harm and he has to 0:13:48 do toll before this and if that person 0:13:50 if that person is doing this now 0:13:52 obviously what you're not saying is that 0:13:54 they simulate himself or stimulate 0:13:56 themselves or pornography or anything 0:13:57 like that that's another issue which 0:13:59 another so you're saying that they do a 0:14:01 mess in off the ice now he's committed a 0:14:03 solo laughs if this is the case and it's 0:14:05 done Zinn of multiple things rather than 0:14:07 know right and to be fair I've actually 0:14:10 I was reading some things uh sharing the 0:14:12 best I think you wrote all obviously he 0:14:16 sees this as Hara right now but what he 0:14:19 said was quite interesting he said 0:14:20 because a higher for instance he said 0:14:22 for medical reasons no you see this is 0:14:25 it isn't specific to this issue this is 0:14:28 why because members understood the 0:14:30 sharia and totality which is that if 0:14:32 there's a medical reason for anything 0:14:33 there's something that is how long we 0:14:34 could be kind of way to do it 0:14:35 there was advocated just for a second 0:14:37 here possibly even recommended possibly 0:14:38 even worshipped yeah that he said for 0:14:41 example if the doctor what sludge 0:14:42 immobilization he said that if the 0:14:43 doctors need his sperm the man's sperm 0:14:46 and that for medical reasons no okay 0:14:49 what if the person just once again there 0:14:52 was a degree now if the person has a 0:14:54 medical problem which necessitates him 0:14:57 he's now he's being harmed by the fact 0:15:00 that he's not releasing no naturally so 0:15:02 his dialer not the same as the Hodja 0:15:04 there's a high let's try limiting the 0:15:07 reasoning yeah isn't the reason in the 0:15:09 same so if you haven't been saying that 0:15:11 for medical reasons you can give it to 0:15:13 the doctor could you not argue that for 0:15:16 medical reasons he can release because 0:15:18 otherwise it will be in pain the problem 0:15:21 is you've conflated between two 0:15:22 differences not sort of thing two 0:15:24 different scenarios you've said in the 0:15:25 first that medical reasons medical 0:15:28 reasons is it going back to himself or 0:15:29 is it purely for example a research 0:15:30 issue he's saying for example the doctor 0:15:32 needs i sent so meaning that there is 0:15:35 some kind of harm that is on him in me 0:15:38 if he does not do this action harmik 0:15:40 about to him yes in that case they 0:15:41 didn't know the legal reasoning behind 0:15:43 it is one of the same it's one in the 0:15:45 same so okay so in both of these issues 0:15:46 if you go to a GP GP says listen I 0:15:49 recommend that you masturbate because 0:15:52 actually if you don't it could have an 0:15:54 impact on your health then here we go 0:15:57 about the fatwa okay this requires a 0:15:59 specific fatwa rather than nano to look 0:16:02 beyond hookman we don't just say general 0:16:04 rooting for this is a specific effects 0:16:06 were this person has to go to that 0:16:07 person he trusts and take knowledge from 0:16:08 it isn't a something general okay I see 0:16:10 what you're saying I think it's been 0:16:11 quite fruitful 0:16:12 to kind of end off I would say this I 0:16:15 would say that in terms of the body yes 0:16:18 we know as is self-flushing if you like 0:16:21 medicine such as wet dream wet dream so 0:16:23 if someone does have a wet dream no 0:16:25 that's not something they'd be sinful 0:16:27 for is it possible do something there no 0:16:30 the pen has been lift on three people 0:16:32 including one of them's an item had 0:16:33 still the person who's sleeping until he 0:16:35 wakes up anything nervous I don't want 0:16:37 to be inappropriate obviously we talk 0:16:39 about race topic but I do want to 0:16:41 mention something that even in Western 0:16:43 culture the I articles and things that 0:16:46 are written that talk about lucid lucid 0:16:49 dreams lucid dreams like wicked reom 0:16:51 sexual dreams and some people actually 0:16:55 induce like the they try and have a wet 0:16:58 dream they try and have that and the way 0:17:00 they do that is by not masturbating by 0:17:03 not by not actually manually trying to 0:17:05 get rid of interesting the point is the 0:17:08 unconscious mind go back to Freudian saw 0:17:11 it off with Freud 0:17:11 yeah the unconscious mind has a tendency 0:17:15 to flush to flush these things so it's 0:17:19 not as if right if the person doesn't do 0:17:22 it that there's no way of it being gone 0:17:24 form an enormous panel and I think man 0:17:29 is probably more potent than in this 0:17:30 particular situation due to the issue of 0:17:34 Shabak I should that's a Shabak which is 0:17:36 a medical condition you know which 0:17:39 mainly to article physical harmony a 0:17:41 person cetera et cetera so that's one 0:17:43 particular angle most important thing 0:17:47 brothers and sisters my advices as a 0:17:50 logical I said I mean took a little 0:17:53 mother if you have lost panatela 0:17:55 illogical it'll create an exit we have 0:17:58 talked of a lot if you find it difficult 0:17:59 to get married have talked of our last 0:18:00 panel Tyler it will be made easy let me 0:18:02 start with your home blah 0:18:03 I'm also ever seeks to have a marriage 0:18:05 and should remain chaste that will be 0:18:07 made easy for him and this is it's a 0:18:10 sooner that we've seen happen Samantha 0:18:11 and one more thing which I haven't 0:18:14 mentioned it is important I think this 0:18:17 from my reading a lot of data on I met 0:18:19 that the verse they use to make it hard 0:18:22 on because Allah people's almost the 0:18:23 evidence no 0:18:24 they say family without liquor so like I 0:18:27 mean I dunno this what marriage yeah so 0:18:30 whoever seeks beyond the ie from 0:18:32 whatever I possess who the watch then 0:18:35 they are the ones who are trying to 0:18:37 present even share with Amira and others 0:18:39 they mentioned the hadith in that verse 0:18:41 that I quoted and whomsoever cannot get 0:18:42 married and finally he was some let him 0:18:44 fast 0:18:44 and in fact they derived evidence from 0:18:46 this that says enemies Allahu Allah 0:18:48 would have pointed him instead - what -0:18:50 masturbation if it was a viable 0:18:52 alternative by a legit uber alternative 0:18:56 whereas an missile Allah or listen did 0:18:58 not two nights after nosecone 0:19:02 assalamualaikum warahmatullah our gate

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CAN I MASTURBATE IF I FEAR ZINA?? - KNOWLEDGE CORNER (2018-09-19)

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