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Firm Feminists Change Mind After Debate (2017-10-16) ​

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This is a short discussion between a Muslim man and two European Feminists. Where the Feminists start seemingly convinced of the feministic narrative they end up being somewhat sympathetic to the arguments against feminism.

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00:00:00 - 00:30:00 ​

"Firm Feminists Change Mind After Debate" discusses a study which found that when feminists focus on overall issues, rather than individual issues, they are less likely to be successful. also discusses a debate between feminists about whether or not a rise in a manager's power correlates with an increase in their responsibility. Ultimately, both sides of the debate agree that if a job entails increased responsibility, then an increase in power usually accompanies it.

00:00:00 critiques feminism for ignoring inequalities between male and female, and proposes that there are fields where men dominate. He then goes on to say that, because of this, the feminist movement should be focused on issues such as child-rearing. He argues that the reason for the feminist movement's lack of focus on these issues is that it is a part of a larger, wave-like movement.

  • 00:05:00 The feminist premise is false - women are not equal to men in every way. Women should revise the feminist premise in order to make arguments that would be more effective.
  • 00:10:00 Feminists change their mind after a debate, realizing that men have more spending capacity than women. This study provides support for this idea.
  • *00:15:00 Discusses how, in some parts of the world, women are still slaves and are treated poorly. It also discusses how the wage gap is a problem, and how, in Congo, men are more likely to die than women.
  • 00:20:00 a woman argues that it is ridiculous to talk about "wide equality" between men and women in the West, but it is even more ridiculous to talk about that in Eastern and African countries. She goes on to say that in those countries, men have more money due to the fact that they need to feed their families. She then says that if you are one-dimensional, you will think that there is a large disparity in inequality between men and women in the West. However, when you think about why the question is important, you come to many different conclusions. One of which is that men have not been the oppressors, but have been part of a system of socialization which has meant that they have now been expected to standpoint. then goes on to say that it is difficult to break away from these ideas and that the Western world is arrogant due to its experience as the world empire.
  • 00:25:00 feminists debate the idea that, because feminism is not a perfect narrative, certain aspects of it should be discounted. One point of contention is whether or not a rise in a manager's power correlates with an increase in their responsibility. Ultimately, both sides of the debate agree that if a job entails increased responsibility, then an increase in power usually accompanies it.
  • *00:30:00 Discusses study which found that when feminists focus on overall issues, rather than individual issues, they are less likely to be successful.

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0:00:21 simply because why the looks of it from
0:00:24 a new perspective not as interested in
0:00:26 debates why are we more interested a
0:00:34 makeup more interested in robots no
0:00:44 reason why I'm a moisture social
0:00:50 construction or is it something that it
0:00:52 partially is like some culture I think
0:00:57 in some cultures women don't have
0:01:07 don't know about cultures where they are
0:01:10 part of debates that I did partially
0:01:14 like their disinterest is partially the
0:01:17 fault of the society that they grew up
0:01:39 that's the case this is a natural
0:01:42 reflection of who wants to do like maybe
0:01:51 some people uncomfortable about certain
0:01:55 things due to the way that was society's
0:01:57 chocolate I think you know what the same
0:02:05 country
0:02:10 can I get something allow me to
0:02:13 speculate I mean I'm not really a as a
0:02:24 result of a feministic narrative which
0:02:28 were blood yeah so feminism is an
0:02:33 ideology which forces want to think
0:02:35 about lack of equality in every single
0:02:38 segment of society so here in speaker's
0:02:41 corner a place where there's no
0:02:43 discussion there's no disagreement that
0:02:47 there's equal opportunities yeah there's
0:02:49 no discrimination in terms of the
0:02:51 population here the demographically no
0:02:54 one is saying for there's no one can
0:02:56 argue that women are not allowed in or
0:02:58 that they're not allowed these
0:02:59 opportunities why even in a place like
0:03:00 this you communist it is not as much
0:03:01 women and there's the fault of this
0:03:03 person before that person I'm just
0:03:05 saying that this is where it becomes
0:03:07 ridiculous in my opinion why because the
0:03:10 feminists ignore it
0:03:12 well if I'm a second heretic when it
0:03:14 gets to this level of insinuating that
0:03:17 every every inequality between male and
0:03:22 female is a result of social pressure
0:03:25 resolve the institution or result of men
0:03:29 even with males for somehow maybe
0:03:32 they're doing something that you know
0:03:34 they're not allowing women to progress
0:03:36 when that happens it becomes fight
0:03:38 ridiculous so here I say sometimes we
0:03:42 have to this is my proposition there are
0:03:45 some fields
0:03:47 there are some fields in humans
0:03:50 economy yeah in any given society
0:03:54 whereby men dominates that profession I
0:03:58 was just reading on BBC that women
0:04:00 dominate Madhuri there's this guy he's a
0:04:03 BBC right now this guy he came in he
0:04:07 wanted to be a midwife yeah a midwife
0:04:09 was the guy who takes me you know care
0:04:11 of pregnant women and the delivery of
0:04:13 the baby and then afterwards yeah
0:04:16 women don't demand it and sometimes they
0:04:19 reject it so in other words the consumer
0:04:22 here which is a woman because only a
0:04:24 woman can be pregnant and give birth
0:04:25 they don't want this for the most part
0:04:28 they don't feel comfortable with this
0:04:29 yeah now the feminist movement has not
0:04:32 said anything about and not said well
0:04:35 done we want we want equality in
0:04:37 mid-missouri
0:04:39 that's not really their reason to be
0:04:42 there I mean the feminist part really
0:04:44 has the same
0:04:47 yeah about issues because they have like
0:04:50 a like a wave like it's the same thing
0:04:53 you cannot the connect movement to to
0:04:56 about the DVD child it's less to do with
0:05:01 intellectual equality and like as more
0:05:04 to do with biology and if a man was
0:05:07 having like a testicular examination he
0:05:10 would probably also want someone
0:05:14 now thank you very much that's that's
0:05:16 good I agree with that of academic like
0:05:24 intellect and that our intellect base
0:05:26 and just
0:05:30 yeah I did oh you mean I think you made
0:05:32 a really really good point yeah both of
0:05:34 you made really good points I agree with
0:05:35 your point Jeff what one the situation
0:05:38 is this
0:05:41 this firmness would actually argue that
0:05:45 there should be absolute equality
0:05:47 between men aware what absolute absolute
0:05:50 equality entails is literally every
0:05:53 social political and economic factor is
0:05:57 equalized to the nth degree so
0:05:59 everything is perfect I say no we should
0:06:03 potentially have a general equality yeah
0:06:06 well not an absolute equality because
0:06:07 when you start speaking about absolute
0:06:09 equality then these examples of males
0:06:12 wanting to be examined by another male
0:06:14 available particular cancer whatever may
0:06:17 be or woman wanting to be examined by
0:06:19 another woman when it comes to giving a
0:06:21 verse or in mid-missouri or whatever
0:06:23 those arguments can't be made but me and
0:06:25 you both can see you see the value in
0:06:28 those arguments in other words the
0:06:29 feminist premise is false
0:06:33 it's true that a lot of feminists argue
0:06:35 for absolutely polity back yes Nolan or
0:06:38 I think that's also like that used to be
0:06:41 more in the old like in the 70s that's
0:06:44 what they wanted but now something I
0:06:49 read recently a very simple is their
0:06:50 family's book by magazi I thought you
0:06:55 know a taffetta Ted Ted talk speech
0:06:57 right and it's for fourteen points of
0:06:59 Communist Manifesto some tonight
0:07:02 fifteen points or 14 I remember number
0:07:06 one point that she made was that you
0:07:08 matter equally no matter what that's
0:07:10 what she said no matter what no ifs no
0:07:12 buts so in other words the way I've
0:07:15 interpreted her first point and her
0:07:17 so-called terminus manifesto is to
0:07:19 suggest that there should be an absolute
0:07:21 equality now if we're in turn this is
0:07:23 not the seventies movement or the second
0:07:25 wave feminism this is you know three
0:07:28 first century feminism I'm saying that
0:07:29 if we want to make those arguments that
0:07:32 we've made today we should we should
0:07:33 actually say we need to revise the
0:07:35 feminist premise because every time now
0:07:38 we ask question do you have to go on our
0:07:39 feminist glasses and ask the question
0:07:42 before we do so one thing is that the
0:07:44 glasses have a have a skewed in other
0:07:50 words they skew your thinking to a
0:07:52 certain direction they magnify certain
0:07:54 things we should not be magnified and
0:07:55 they reduce sentence we should not be
0:07:57 reduced because this mug would my point
0:08:00 I think that you're saying that
0:08:05 because much of the feminist movement is
0:08:08 not really in the institutions somehow
0:08:11 they have entered the most the
0:08:18 high-class line mr. oh yeah
0:08:20 have allowed them to be like Dettol
0:08:24 really hot I mean you can't really talk
0:08:27 about the quality and and see what is
0:08:32 biologically linked to the women and
0:08:35 what is not and what is those opposed
0:08:41 down in America in the demographical
0:08:43 perspective were 85 percent of women
0:08:46 disassociated with the feminist movement
0:08:48 so from the demographic perspective I
0:08:50 don't think that people are feminists by
0:08:52 Lodge but the point of our institution
0:08:54 has definitely changed Semitism Kennedy
0:08:59 and Johnson right America they actually
0:09:03 put her law equality legislation 96 a
0:09:06 few nights until Joe Johnson drains it
0:09:10 was a range of legislation I was before
0:09:11 and continue to purport in this country
0:09:13 1998 equality act another so these
0:09:19 things are influenced by the public
0:09:21 school who can say they're not and I
0:09:23 think that there is a reason for it to
0:09:25 be in place not saying it's a bad thing
0:09:27 actually that's a bad thing why I'm
0:09:29 saying is that when we start insisting
0:09:31 on equality on every big and small thing
0:09:34 we start to fall into problems when we
0:09:37 start going into the nuances on society
0:09:39 like things like memory you need to get
0:09:45 over the bigger issues first or like
0:09:47 equality of pay and things that are
0:09:50 still a huge problem before they will
0:09:53 pay the problem yes somehow you need to
0:09:58 give it up to the so where is the
0:10:04 quality of problem where is that problem
0:10:06 in America in Germany in Germany has
0:10:08 also on how ordinal all of you come to
0:10:10 that conclusion so I know America
0:10:13 actually forced a lot of companies in
0:10:16 Germany to start hiring more women into
0:10:18 CEO positions and it was not enforced
0:10:22 enough and so even by the end of the
0:10:24 year there were less women in the CEO
0:10:26 positions than there by law should have
0:10:29 been
0:10:32 well I want to tell you is that there's
0:10:33 an interesting book there's two books at
0:10:36 this guy's written which I actually
0:10:37 recommend him there is worried feral
0:10:39 warfare in something like this between
0:10:42 the elves and
0:10:43 he wrote one book called the myth of
0:10:45 male power and he wrote another book
0:10:47 about pain but he was really very strong
0:10:52 in his analysis I believe he was talking
0:10:54 about the American context but it's also
0:10:55 the Western context what he said is that
0:10:58 basically the wage the gender wage gap
0:11:01 because of his muscle you why he says
0:11:03 that he says that when we compare men
0:11:05 and women's pain we compare like for
0:11:08 like so for example we literally look in
0:11:10 every given sector
0:11:17 we look at every given sector for things
0:11:20 like we look at what an engineer woman
0:11:24 is making compared to an engineer man
0:11:26 what engineer what a doctor woman is
0:11:28 making professor was up to man is big
0:11:30 and we look at the means of those few
0:11:32 things for the man so what he says is
0:11:40 that though he says eleven reasons why
0:11:43 actually men don't make more than women
0:11:46 he says one of them is the fact that men
0:11:47 decide to continue in what occupation
0:11:50 whereas women take maternity leave in
0:11:52 other words the experience of a man is
0:11:54 more than the experience of a woman
0:11:55 where the analysis is fair is diffic a
0:11:58 shoes and experience are the same for
0:12:00 example if I have the same
0:12:02 qualifications as you and I get a job
0:12:05 and you don't get a job I got the same
0:12:07 experiences use and that's a problem
0:12:09 that's one that's one thing the other
0:12:11 point is part-time and full-time
0:12:12 occupation to a woman choose to go on
0:12:14 part-time more often than men a third
0:12:17 thing is men decide to go to other
0:12:19 countries and other localities whereby
0:12:21 there's more traveling because for some
0:12:23 reason men generally like to travel more
0:12:25 for work for men like to do or men have
0:12:29 shown perspective to be able to work in
0:12:33 what they do survive
0:12:34 there's 11 of those I'm not going to go
0:12:35 through them but basically he goes and
0:12:38 in a lot of jobs you don't necessarily
0:12:40 enter a dangerous environment so like
0:12:43 for construction workers it's completely
0:12:45 understandable that you're a doctor like
0:12:47 you said yeah except it so we have to
0:12:50 also apply the other logic now an
0:12:52 interesting point to know is as follows
0:12:54 there's a difference and this is a
0:12:55 really powerful point that he made to
0:12:57 think about it he said there's a
0:12:59 difference between
0:13:01 next gross earnings and net spending
0:13:05 capacity okay now let me tell you what
0:13:08 we mean in most countries and most
0:13:10 civilizations and especially now even in
0:13:12 the West even in the West the second
0:13:15 time this second wave feminist movement
0:13:18 even after that we find that basically
0:13:22 men have to spend for their family
0:13:25 that's usually as a trend yeah they have
0:13:27 children they're more expected they're
0:13:29 socialized to do that now if that's the
0:13:33 case what what what Farrell was able to
0:13:36 show us and his endnotes of his book the
0:13:38 myth of her power is that when we
0:13:40 compare male and female male and female
0:13:44 spending power
0:13:45 we notice that male spending power from
0:13:48 he wrote his first book in 97 I think in
0:13:51 the second one available 2008 the same
0:13:53 book one or two editions and I think the
0:13:56 first edition you said that basically
0:13:59 woman made on average had an average
0:14:02 spending capacity of 10,000 dollars not
0:14:05 money that they make for money that they
0:14:07 can spend a year banning men made 10,000
0:14:11 women made 14,000 in other words woman
0:14:14 have women have more net spending
0:14:17 capacity than men according to this
0:14:19 study that his purport therefore we have
0:14:23 to be holistic in our economic analysis
0:14:25 I think that really the people that push
0:14:27 forward this whole gender pay disparity
0:14:31 thing people who have a disfluency real
0:14:35 at rebuilding schools a hard time
0:14:36 understanding economics
0:14:39 but if you if you like look at the
0:14:42 spending again on another level women
0:14:44 buying must've food for the household
0:14:46 because they're expected to be cooks and
0:14:49 things like that or they have we say
0:14:57 that men have been in most cultures in
0:14:59 societies have been socialized feeling
0:15:02 that they have to pay for the more and
0:15:05 more women are also contributing to the
0:15:07 household yeah I'm saying that's not
0:15:09 happening definitely the Western world
0:15:10 has somebody now when we go east that's
0:15:13 happening less and less and this is
0:15:14 where the problem is I love people say
0:15:16 that well look at the other parts of the
0:15:18 world ok Africa look at Asia China
0:15:20 places
0:15:39 so yeah point to you know and most of us
0:15:43 wanna make this point and most of the
0:15:45 permanent analyses that I've come across
0:15:47 I've always seen them and this is what
0:15:49 similar what others have said devotee
0:15:52 Baba Covenant will report
0:15:57 feminine mystique and all of these books
0:15:59 which are the seminal works talking
0:16:01 about Mike no line of books or radical
0:16:05 books about mainstream feminist book the
0:16:08 boy
0:16:08 the majority of them which I've read
0:16:10 always make this comparison which makes
0:16:12 me quite angry actually you know what
0:16:15 comparison is the makes comparison
0:16:17 between these women and stay please
0:16:19 basic obscene effects Simone de Beauvoir
0:16:22 actually goes as far as talk about black
0:16:24 slave now why does that make the upset
0:16:29 because actually
0:16:31 the meeting and demoralizing clothes
0:16:37 black people they were forced and then
0:16:40 they were whipped
0:16:41 they were raped things that don't happen
0:16:43 to women on a regular basis I'm sorry
0:16:46 they just don't we're gonna don't get
0:16:47 ripped either ways that black people
0:16:49 were whipped don't get killed they don't
0:16:50 get separated a family a child she's
0:17:01 engaged a marriage
0:17:02 I wonder what find a way if you look at
0:17:04 one of my interviews online in French
0:17:06 much translated into English yeah that
0:17:08 interview she says that she's against
0:17:12 Mary she was never married before she's
0:17:14 actually she believes that she's got a
0:17:15 chapter in a book for marriage she talks
0:17:18 about how marriage is an impressive
0:17:19 institution and she's never been married
0:17:22 and she feels this liberating to never
0:17:24 get married like this women continue to
0:17:26 get anyway one thing is this
0:17:31 not only is it demoralizing but if there
0:17:33 was going to be any kind of analysis
0:17:35 between slave and someone in the
0:17:39 household that would have to be the man
0:17:40 especially in the eastern world let me
0:17:42 explain myself
0:17:42 let me explain so we're talking about
0:17:44 muscle if you will if we now transport
0:17:49 ourselves when London speakers corner we
0:17:52 go into a transportation machine or go
0:17:54 to a plane and we're going to go - I
0:17:56 don't know Kenya one of the African
0:17:59 country swaps are in African countries
0:18:00 Kenya let's go somewhere deeper Zimbabwe
0:18:03 yeah go to any of those countries you'll
0:18:07 find small Congo Congo is a good example
0:18:09 yeah especially in some areas
0:18:12 go to Congo you'll find smooth men small
0:18:15 boys actually the age of seven years of
0:18:18 tying the world of work where you know
0:18:20 here that have you know yet three or
0:18:23 something for those kids here in the
0:18:26 Congo they have to start mining yeah
0:18:28 those those kids that start mining at
0:18:32 the age of seven and continue doing so
0:18:33 until they're 47 we're in Congo I think
0:18:37 their life expectancy is 50 or something
0:18:38 one of the lowest in the world
0:18:42 think about it to feed his family that
0:18:45 person has to go to different villages
0:18:47 and fetch different places I don't
0:18:49 consider that bus depressing his wife
0:18:54 that guy he is the slave owner and the
0:18:57 woman in his house with this name I say
0:19:00 if there's any slave is him they might
0:19:04 have some privileges I mean what the
0:19:15 David can receive always what Hyundai
0:19:18 perspective there
0:19:19 that women to be with them four hours a
0:19:24 day or something yeah
0:19:25 well 13 14 let's be perfect I mean sorry
0:19:27 the but not on the field but what I'm
0:19:34 saying is that's the pop yes you're
0:19:36 right but let me be a double dad okay
0:19:38 for a bit
0:19:38 the older is working at the household
0:19:40 she's safe with him he's a he's a higher
0:19:42 risk of death he has a lower life
0:19:45 expectancy he has a higher risk of
0:19:47 getting diseases he has a higher risk of
0:19:49 getting killed by one of the militias
0:19:51 and in Congo the appellations so when
0:19:53 they say and the news my friend the way
0:19:56 the wage gap yeah look at the wage gap
0:19:59 you have such a problem with you're born
0:20:00 a woman
0:20:00 it's ridiculous to talk about that in
0:20:02 the West but it's even more ridiculous
0:20:04 to talk about that in the east and in
0:20:05 African countries why because in those
0:20:07 countries men have more money by virtue
0:20:10 of the fact that they need to to feed
0:20:12 their families and they do that what
0:20:14 have you looked at economic indicators
0:20:15 and you listen to coming to speak on the
0:20:18 face of it if you're one-dimensional
0:20:19 you'll think wow what a disparity why
0:20:21 call it wide equality we live in what
0:20:23 your oppression we have but when you
0:20:25 think about why the question why the
0:20:27 all-important question wise we come to
0:20:29 many different conclusions will show us
0:20:31 like men have not being the oppressors
0:20:34 and the gangsters under you know but
0:20:40 they have been part of a system of
0:20:42 socialization which meant that they have
0:20:44 now been also expected
0:20:52 standpoint
0:20:55 it's hardly something I'm sorry by the
0:21:04 way sometimes I start so can I get a big
0:21:06 passion gonna say this
0:21:14 I know it's difficult what about talking
0:21:17 about let me tell you what
0:21:20 it's difficult to break away from wait
0:21:24 for a post enlightenment we could even
0:21:27 call it let's be honest a post-colonial
0:21:28 mentality
0:21:29 what do I mean by that the ideas of the
0:21:32 Western world are so ingrained into our
0:21:34 psyche that when we want me to drop
0:21:37 morality feminism racism this stuff some
0:21:43 of it is completely right we'll
0:21:45 completely against racism we don't we
0:21:47 believe in a general equality between
0:21:48 men a woman right but you have to start
0:21:51 being more critical yeah I think I'll be
0:21:55 honest with you the Western world is
0:21:56 arrogant now why because after the Cold
0:22:00 War and you know more about this after
0:22:07 91 listen tonight onwards yeah there's a
0:22:10 superpower in the world there's a huge
0:22:13 Avenue the American hegemony yeah that
0:22:16 superpower has taken the ideas from the
0:22:19 arrival period and is now pumping them
0:22:21 to the rest of the world
0:22:23 that's almost I don't see why people
0:22:25 should be arrogant about the fact that
0:22:27 there's a super-powerful United America
0:22:28 why if the history is the shortest lived
0:22:32 so far youngest super powers ever live
0:22:35 empires that look at empires that have
0:22:38 lived in the past look at for example
0:22:40 the monkeys look at the Ottoman Empire
0:22:43 for 1453 it's just another Empire 25
0:22:51 years and now America thinks has got
0:22:53 everything right and the West things has
0:22:55 got everything right all of its ideas
0:22:57 are the ultimate truth and all of the
0:22:59 other ideas are not right what we have
0:23:03 to do is we have to be more critical
0:23:04 than that just because America is
0:23:05 experiencing its turn as the world
0:23:08 empire it doesn't mean to say that it's
0:23:10 ideologies and the ideologies are far
0:23:12 from it that much from it are the
0:23:15 correct ideologies we have to think
0:23:16 people in there
0:23:19 I'm actually I guess some ideologist
0:23:21 coming somebody else yeah but I think
0:23:24 that actually you
0:23:27 the feminist view you get to realize
0:23:30 that there's no only one way of feminism
0:23:32 yes liberal feminism there are lots of
0:23:37 different
0:23:40 I know talking about what we're talking
0:23:43 about we're talking about
0:23:45 I think that you're right about the
0:23:48 things of a
0:23:50 the men are the ones will usually go to
0:23:53 the
0:23:55 the most dangerous somehow some feminist
0:24:00 movements they are trying to deal with
0:24:02 that I mean to end with those
0:24:04 relationships I know that the posterity
0:24:08 what that was a to the planter Kate is
0:24:10 not always beautiful but why is it that
0:24:20 you're not I mean why is it that you're
0:24:23 not comfortable talking about feminism
0:24:26 if they are trying to end up with those
0:24:28 relations I mean they are in the same
0:24:30 comfortable joints I mean I like why
0:24:33 don't you join the feminism
0:24:35 in that way tell you why because I don't
0:24:38 agree with the narrative women's rights
0:24:45 I'm a hundred percent for that yeah I'll
0:24:48 talk about that way what does like
0:24:50 women's rights include for you
0:24:54 feminism does not have the monopoly on
0:24:57 who is right there is a panoply of
0:25:00 different systems out there ideology is
0:25:02 all of which you can't discount the
0:25:08 fight for women's rights just because
0:25:11 feminism it is a it isn't a perfect
0:25:14 narrative and it has a lot of problems
0:25:16 like you said like discounting men's
0:25:19 rights in that whole debate as well and
0:25:23 so yeah I'm not saying over ISM is wrong
0:25:25 but I'm just saying that the parts I
0:25:27 disagree with once you're in our van
0:25:30 I've outlined them to see what I mean
0:25:32 yes but that point that you made about
0:25:34 patriarchy patriarchy because the thing
0:25:38 is this
0:25:40 if you don't go to the city here yeah
0:25:42 he's lucky central ECM
0:25:46 go we go to the sea we meet one of the
0:25:50 corporate bosses who say to the cuckoo
0:25:53 boss how many people are you managing
0:26:00 how many people are you managing he says
0:26:04 in 2008 I was my 2007 I was managing
0:26:08 four people or three people now I'm
0:26:11 managing eight people would you agree
0:26:13 that that's an increase in that managers
0:26:15 power
0:26:19 would you say that now he's managing
0:26:20 more people therefore his power has
0:26:22 increased would you say though his power
0:26:23 stayed the same
0:26:29 I'm saying if you go to a if you go to
0:26:31 them if you go to now a corporation yeah
0:26:35 yes you go to one of the bosses there
0:26:39 and you ask him how many people were you
0:26:41 managing 2008 ours managing four people
0:26:47 17 I'm managing a people who do not
0:26:50 release a therefore his influence has
0:26:53 increased his powers company now if I
0:27:14 say this woman has to changing 2008 from
0:27:20 2018
0:27:22 she has six children
0:27:26 I mean
0:27:31 so you're saying no but you see why is
0:27:34 there a difference well a manager can
0:27:42 tell people his people what to do he
0:27:44 doesn't have to train them who doesn't
0:27:46 have to live other consulate children
0:27:47 what to do yes but at the same time she
0:27:49 has to make sure that all of their needs
0:27:51 are satisfied about a job
0:27:53 no she doesn't have to you just have to
0:27:55 make sure that they stay fed and for
0:27:58 them different roles and
0:28:01 responsibilities are different yeah
0:28:02 the nature of the job is different
0:28:04 however the idea of responsibility has
0:28:07 stayed the same
0:28:08 we go now to an old person's home
0:28:10 hopeful to ask the person who's working
0:28:13 the manager how many old people are you
0:28:15 looking after there's four people I have
0:28:18 responsibilities or four people now it's
0:28:20 increased in say eight people
0:28:21 the same Keukenhof same thing this now
0:28:25 you can bring in the same kinds of
0:28:27 responsibilities the responsibilities
0:28:29 relationships not
0:28:32 somehow the workers feel that their it's
0:28:36 their responsibility to to make this
0:28:39 company grow up and the mother is the
0:28:43 one who cares about that you grow up
0:28:45 I mean the mother is it's the one who
0:29:01 cares about the children and she is the
0:29:03 one who tries to break them up in a big
0:29:06 way and in the company are the workers
0:29:09 who won the ones who won in the nature
0:29:14 of work but I'm just saying to believe
0:29:17 look if we should be by increasing
0:29:19 increase and increase the responsibility
0:29:24 usually means an increase in power
0:29:28 yeah any piece responsibility usually
0:29:31 means the increase of power or an
0:29:32 increase in power usually means
0:29:34 increased responsibility yes in most
0:29:39 economic situations an increase in power
0:29:41 it means entails and increase
0:29:44 responsibility if give me any job in the
0:29:47 world any job the president president
0:29:51 okay now his responsibilities have
0:29:54 become laws when it became president
0:29:56 okay so what we're saying is the same
0:30:00 prediction of mine the home the point is
0:30:02 that this guys
0:30:16 power dynamic between the damaja seeded
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0:31:55 now these are I'm not saying I disagree
0:31:59 with all your points I agree with the
0:32:02 general equality premise I'm saying is
0:32:04 that when we think about things I mean
0:32:24 there are studies that have like it's
0:32:27 true that the feminist art of is like
0:32:31 like it's just not a very spirit like
0:32:34 they should look at the individual
0:32:36 issues more than like the overall issues
0:32:39 like just focus on like that it's not a
0:32:43 feminist cause but it's like sitted like
0:32:46 a pause for rights in general so there's
0:32:49 a study where they sent an application
0:32:52 to the same the only difference was the
0:32:58 name called the ethnic minority isn't
0:33:25 you know yeah I'm saying that people are
0:33:31 if a woman was applying from as a
0:33:35 midwife job a midwife she would program
0:33:38 positive discrimination probably
0:33:41 preferred
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0:34:05 which are stigmatized you guys yeah
0:34:30 thank you