Londoniyyah - Part 15 - Nihilism | Mohammed Hijab (2022-02-01) ​
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Summary of Londoniyyah - Part 15 - Nihilism | Mohammed Hijab ​
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00:00:00 - 01:00:00 ​
Mohammed Hijab discusses the concept of nihilism and how it relates to Islam. He points out that, in Islam, there is a sense of understanding that this world is only temporary and that there is a higher purpose to be pursued in the afterlife. He also discusses how nihilism can be a very depressing perspective, and how it can have a significant impact on how a person behaves in this life.
00:00:00 the Londoniyyah group discusses nihilism and existential nihilism. According to existential nihilism, there is no meaning or purpose in life, and nothing can be known for certain. Nietzsche, one of the founders of postmodernism, is also considered a nihilist. He believed that life is without purpose and that everything is in a state of flux. Rosenberg, an atheist, argues that there is no meaning or purpose in the universe, and that we are living an illusion. Heidegger, a German philosopher, also discusses the inevitability of death and the futility of life. He believes that the most authentic way to be is to accept what death is and to suffer.
- *00:05:00 Discusses the idea of nihilism, which is the belief that there is no objective meaning or purpose in the universe. Nietzsche and other philosophers believed that this was the result of humans creating their own values and purposes, which was eventually rejected by many people.
- 00:10:00 , Mohammed Hijab discusses the various types of nihilism and their implications for the individual. He points out that, because nihilism rejects values and meaning, it has negative consequences for the individual, such as a lack of purpose and meaning in life. He also mentions political and epistemological nihilism, and existentialism, which negates the possibility of knowing anything or having any purpose in life.
- 00:15:00 Mohammed Hijab discusses the concept of nihilism, which is the belief that there is no meaning or purpose in life. He points out that this belief is derived from the knowledge that we all are going to die and that we are constantly suffering. He also mentions the concept of pessimism, which is one of the driving forces of nihilism.
- 00:20:00 Mohammed Hijab discusses the concept of nihilism and its relation to the rise of science and the Scientific Revolution. He points out that while nihilism has not been successful in the Muslim world, it has been successful in the Western world. He argues that this is because the Islamic world lacks a metaphysical understanding of the world, while the West has progressed beyond religion.
- *00:25:00 Discusses the history of science and how, in the Muslim world, there was a greater appreciation for the scientific process. However, this was not without conflict, as there were also individuals who opposed science for religious reasons. One example discussed is the persecution of Galileo Galilei.
- 00:30:00 Mohammed Hijab discusses the idea that religion is necessary for humans to make sense of the world. He points out that there are contradictions in Nietzsche's views on religion, and that his defenders would say that he was just talking about epistemological claims.
- *00:35:00 Discusses the purpose of life in Islam, depression, and mental health. concludes with a discussion of how these concepts should be approached in counseling.
- 00:40:00 The Muslim cleric discusses the concept of worship in Islam, highlighting that it includes obeying one's parents and fulfilling one's daily duties. He goes on to say that there are multiple definitions of worship, and that submitting to one's Creator is the most fundamental form of it.
- 00:45:00 Mohammed Hijab discusses the definition of worship in Islam, citing verses from the Qur'an. He points out that worship is a voluntary act of submission to a higher power, and that there is a difference between human slavery and worship of God.
- 00:50:00 Mohammed Hijab discusses the idea of nihilism and how it relates to Islam. He points out that, in Islam, there is a sense of understanding that this world is only temporary and that there is a higher purpose to be pursued in the afterlife. He also discusses how nihilism can be a very depressing perspective, and how it can have a significant impact on how a person behaves in this life.
- 00:55:00 Mohammed Hijab discusses the concept of optimism in Islam, citing a hadith which states that one should have hope in the face of adversity. He also points out that pessimism is not a fair perspective and that one should have a balance of both optimism and pessimism.
01:00:00 - 01:20:00 ​
discusses the idea of nihilism, or the belief that there is no meaning or purpose in life. Mohammed Hijab says that for a pessimistic person, this can be a very optimistic perspective. He also discusses the importance of having hope and fear in order to motivate oneself and be realistic in one's outlook.
01:00:00 Mohammed Hijab discusses the importance of having hope and fear in order to motivate oneself and be realistic in one's outlook. Islam is an optimistic religion, and as such, Muslims should always expect the best and believe that Allah will help them in their struggles. When faced with difficult situations, it is important not to have pessimism, but to maintain hope and fear in equal measure.
- *01:05:00 Discusses depression in Islam, and how Islam provides ways to understand and deal with it. It points to a hadith which says that one of the people in the day of judgment will be one of the happiest disbelievers.
- *01:10:00 Discusses a hadith which states that the most depressed people in paradise are those who are pious and regular in their prayer. He points out that this hadith is compatible with the idea that depression can be caused by non-religious factors. He then discusses how some people try to sell Islam by claiming that becoming a Muslim will cure depression, when in reality, depression can happen even after someone becomes Muslim.
- 01:15:00 Islam teaches that every experience is meaningful, even if it's difficult. Mohammed Hijab discusses the importance of accepting pain and grief in order to find peace. He also discusses the importance of counseling, which can be helpful in resolving mental health issues.
- 01:20:00 Mohammed Hijab discusses the idea of nihilism, or the belief that there is no meaning or purpose in life. He says that for a pessimistic person, this can be a very optimistic perspective.
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0:00:12 welcome to the ninth session yes we've
0:00:14 come a long way in terms of our
0:00:16 progression in the london area
0:00:18 alhamdulillah i think the group here has
0:00:19 really benefited in a very positive
0:00:20 manner
0:00:21 and uh they've improved them in uh
0:00:24 obviously you guys can't see them but i
0:00:25 can and their discussions and debates
0:00:27 have really
0:00:29 you know developed in a staggering way
0:00:32 today we're going to be speaking about
0:00:33 nihilism and nihilism is one of those
0:00:36 ideologies
0:00:37 if we can call it that or one of those
0:00:40 notions if you want to put in that
0:00:42 language
0:00:43 which really has gripped the new age
0:00:47 so we're going to listen to some of the
0:00:48 poetry regarding this with the sheikh
0:00:50 and we'll come back and speak about
0:00:52 nihilism
0:00:53 firstly
0:01:17 let's start off with uh different types
0:01:19 of nihilism one of the most if you can
0:01:22 maybe the most actually
0:01:24 foundational kind of nihilism is what is
0:01:26 referred to as existential nihilism now
0:01:29 the word existential obviously comes
0:01:30 from the word exist
0:01:32 now we exist
0:01:34 and existential nihilism as you can see
0:01:36 in the slides
0:01:38 according to the internet encyclopedia
0:01:41 it says is the belief that all values
0:01:43 are baseless and that nothing can be
0:01:45 known or communicated it's often
0:01:47 associated with extreme pessimism and a
0:01:49 radical skepticism that condemns
0:01:51 existence a true nihilist would believe
0:01:53 in nothing have no loyalties and no
0:01:56 purpose other than perhaps
0:01:58 and impulse to destroy
0:02:00 and nietzsche refers to nihilism in
0:02:02 general general as
0:02:04 radical repudiation of value meaning and
0:02:06 desirability
0:02:09 now what can you say after that
0:02:12 obviously just for those who don't know
0:02:14 who nietzsche is nietzsche frederick
0:02:16 nietzsche
0:02:17 was one of really the founding fathers
0:02:20 of post-modernism or post-structuralism
0:02:23 which we've kind of alluded to in
0:02:24 previous sessions
0:02:26 and he's also
0:02:28 actually credited with contributing to
0:02:30 nihilism even though to be fair
0:02:32 i couldn't say the majority but a large
0:02:35 chunk of commentators on nietzsche
0:02:38 uh don't regard nietzsche himself as a
0:02:40 nihilist which is a bit of a
0:02:41 interesting
0:02:43 paradox if you like but we'll explain
0:02:44 why they don't see him as a nihilist
0:02:46 even though he contributed to our
0:02:48 understanding of nihilism you could
0:02:50 argue actually he's one of the main
0:02:51 names that contributed to our
0:02:53 understanding
0:02:54 of nihilism
0:02:57 and
0:02:58 a book that was written recently was by
0:03:00 alex rosenberg
0:03:02 an atheist guide to reality and in this
0:03:05 book
0:03:06 um rosenberg says
0:03:08 that purpose and its parents aboutness
0:03:11 are illusions created by introspection
0:03:15 we are living an illusory existence
0:03:18 really there is no meaning there's no
0:03:20 purpose there's no such thing as
0:03:23 truth of course because there's no
0:03:25 purpose there's no purpose that's fixed
0:03:27 or assigned to our lives there's no
0:03:29 purpose that is fixed or assigned to our
0:03:32 existence all of it is aimless and
0:03:34 purposeless we exist
0:03:37 as infinitesimally small specks
0:03:40 in a
0:03:42 in a universe which is huge
0:03:44 which outsizes us
0:03:46 hugely
0:03:48 and we
0:03:49 we are we are worthless actually we we
0:03:52 don't have any purpose and
0:03:54 the truth of the matter according to
0:03:56 this obviously understanding
0:03:59 is
0:04:00 that there is no truth of the matter
0:04:02 the truth of the matter is that there is
0:04:04 no truth
0:04:06 you know and also you could say
0:04:08 you know and this is one of my common
0:04:10 sense lies i had to rethink it you know
0:04:12 there is no truth of the matter in fact
0:04:14 uh i would say also this is that
0:04:17 there's two things we're trying to run
0:04:18 away from
0:04:20 there's two things one of them is death
0:04:22 we're trying to the the
0:04:24 ultimate end you know
0:04:26 um
0:04:27 heidegger one of he wasn't an analyst
0:04:28 but a heidegger martin heidegger who is
0:04:31 a german philosopher in the 40s
0:04:33 he he mentioned this he mentioned
0:04:35 actually the most authentic you can be
0:04:37 is by recognizing what death is about
0:04:39 and so on he's very interesting kind of
0:04:40 existentialist philosopher but death is
0:04:42 inescapable and we are trying to run
0:04:44 away from death
0:04:46 and not only is it that death is we're
0:04:48 looking at but also so therefore
0:04:51 sorry one more thing is suffering
0:04:53 suffering is all over the world
0:04:55 you know and we need to we need to
0:04:57 escape suffering
0:04:58 and so in order to kind of just distract
0:05:01 ourselves from death and suffering we
0:05:03 have invented
0:05:05 religion
0:05:07 we have invented ideology
0:05:09 we have invented purpose we have
0:05:11 invented value and we have even invented
0:05:14 truth we're just great human inventors
0:05:17 we everything is a social construct in
0:05:19 fact you know
0:05:20 and the truth is when we peel all of
0:05:22 this away and realize there's nothing
0:05:24 left there is nothing left according to
0:05:26 them there's no purpose no value
0:05:28 nothing just
0:05:30 you are an infinitesimally small speck
0:05:33 of dust
0:05:34 on a small speck of dust type planet in
0:05:38 a very small insignificant milky way in
0:05:41 a very small galaxy in a very small
0:05:42 universe of maybe
0:05:44 an infinite universe multiverse so we're
0:05:46 nothing you're nothing i'm nothing and
0:05:48 your problems are nothing and all your
0:05:50 happiness your love whoever you love
0:05:53 is that's nothing that's that's
0:05:56 invented
0:05:57 thing
0:05:59 and so on
0:06:01 so this is really
0:06:03 the idea
0:06:05 viktor frankl
0:06:08 states
0:06:09 the truth is that the struggle for
0:06:11 survival has subsided
0:06:13 the question has emerged survival for
0:06:15 what
0:06:17 ever more people
0:06:18 have the means to live
0:06:20 but nothing to live for
0:06:22 a question is like after you've now
0:06:25 secured because the darwinian paradigm
0:06:27 says that we live as animals as
0:06:30 glorified sophisticated
0:06:32 animals
0:06:33 with two
0:06:34 primary motivations the motivation to
0:06:37 survive survivability and reproduction
0:06:41 and to reproduce
0:06:43 but now that we've settled our desire to
0:06:45 survive and even maybe even settled our
0:06:48 desire to reproduce if we even have that
0:06:50 desire anymore some don't have that
0:06:52 desire
0:06:54 if we've settled those desires
0:06:56 then what is this really for
0:07:00 in fact
0:07:01 on this world view there's nothing to
0:07:02 live for
0:07:04 because there's absolutely
0:07:07 well what are we living for you know
0:07:09 franco says
0:07:13 nothing to live for in fact we
0:07:15 philosophers and this is what nietzsche
0:07:16 says okay
0:07:18 and free spirits
0:07:22 feel as if we are illumined
0:07:24 by a new dawn on receiving the news that
0:07:26 the old god is dead and this is a very
0:07:29 famous line that was proported or
0:07:30 mentioned by nietzsche god is dead he
0:07:33 says actually if you look at the context
0:07:35 of how he said this he said as a mad man
0:07:37 he goes into the town he says god is
0:07:39 dead god is dead and we've killed him
0:07:40 what does he mean god is dead and we've
0:07:42 killed him what do you mean by this he
0:07:44 means that we've morality the old
0:07:46 morality is no longer tenable
0:07:48 we know where it came from we know that
0:07:50 it was invented that humans made it up
0:07:52 and therefore this thing is nonsense so
0:07:55 now we have to reinvent everything
0:07:56 because the old way is the gun
0:07:59 that's what it means by
0:08:02 but he continues on by saying our hearts
0:08:04 are filled with gratitude wonder
0:08:07 premonition anticipation
0:08:10 at last the new horizon seems to us open
0:08:13 again the sea our sea lies open before
0:08:16 us perhaps there has never been such an
0:08:18 open sea
0:08:19 optimistic words
0:08:21 for a very pessimistic
0:08:23 man quite frankly you know nature
0:08:26 but this and we'll come to this why
0:08:28 nietzsche although he's done all this
0:08:30 deconstruction
0:08:31 we can call it destroying metanarratives
0:08:33 destroying
0:08:34 religion and god is and all this but he
0:08:37 actually doesn't say stop there he says
0:08:38 that we have to rise above this he
0:08:39 mentions the ubermensch the
0:08:41 uh well actually the nazis use this i
0:08:44 idea the idea of the overlord
0:08:46 the man who comes out and invents his
0:08:49 own reality now that everything is gone
0:08:50 there's everything is rubble in the
0:08:52 trash heap of history now we have to
0:08:54 create our own meaning and our own
0:08:56 understanding we hear this a lot well if
0:08:57 you ask someone
0:08:59 go to the street
0:09:01 and ask them this is the most important
0:09:02 question in life in fact one of
0:09:06 the world's most ultimate questions what
0:09:08 is the purpose of life
0:09:10 and you'll be
0:09:12 probably hear something the effect of we
0:09:14 create our own purpose
0:09:16 and this is where it's coming from it's
0:09:18 coming from this idea that we're free
0:09:19 spirits that there is no objective
0:09:21 purpose objective reality doesn't even
0:09:24 we're not sure of
0:09:26 ergo epistemological nihilism but then
0:09:29 we'll come to it but the idea is we
0:09:32 invent our own purpose whatever we love
0:09:34 to love and to be loved whatever it is
0:09:35 we like we enjoy
0:09:37 that's the purpose of life but that's
0:09:38 really coming from a nature spirit
0:09:43 now there are different types of
0:09:44 nihilism there's moral nihilism
0:09:47 which we're going to cover very
0:09:48 important to us because many people are
0:09:50 moral nihilists and they say that there
0:09:52 are no moral values there's no such
0:09:54 thing as moral values
0:09:55 there's no objective moral values that
0:09:57 everything is created by us social
0:09:59 constructs and so on there are no moral
0:10:02 values
0:10:04 and i i find it really
0:10:06 strange
0:10:07 that people that classify themselves as
0:10:09 moral nihilists would attack islam or
0:10:11 other religions
0:10:12 you don't believe in morality you don't
0:10:14 believe it even exists well then you'll
0:10:16 start speaking about stoning and this
0:10:17 and you know
0:10:19 amputations and all well amputating or
0:10:22 stoning is equivalent to
0:10:25 you know eating hot chocolate or
0:10:26 something to you
0:10:27 it's all just you know it's nothing it
0:10:29 has no meaning
0:10:30 this is and we really need to identify
0:10:33 this if someone i if someone identifies
0:10:35 as a nihilist
0:10:37 there is no use having a moral
0:10:38 discussion with them because they don't
0:10:40 believe in morality
0:10:42 it's like speaking about santa claus
0:10:45 or something that we all know doesn't
0:10:46 exist
0:10:47 you know it's like why are we even
0:10:49 having this conversation you're a moral
0:10:50 nihilist
0:10:51 and the conversation really ends there
0:10:53 you know
0:10:54 but anyway the moral nihilism that there
0:10:56 are no moral values
0:10:58 epistemological nihilism there's no
0:10:59 truth and we talked about this
0:11:01 a little bit when it came to the first
0:11:03 ever the
0:11:04 session we've done we talked about like
0:11:05 what kind of truths neopragmatism the
0:11:09 the the type of which was propounded by
0:11:11 richard rorty and others it kind of
0:11:14 moves in this direction quite frankly
0:11:15 you know
0:11:17 and
0:11:19 you could argue there's an overlap then
0:11:21 cosmic nihilism that the cosmos is
0:11:23 unintelligible that is
0:11:25 it's just a heap of material which um we
0:11:29 don't really know what to make of it
0:11:30 really
0:11:33 it's just a heap of living in the
0:11:34 universe just a heap of material there's
0:11:35 nothing there you know
0:11:38 existentialism there's no purpose of
0:11:39 life you guys are saying this purpose of
0:11:41 life actually it's all fake
0:11:42 it's all fake
0:11:44 so you're it's a fraud
0:11:45 it's that's what it is
0:11:49 and obviously uh political nihilism um
0:11:51 and this was the usage that was used in
0:11:53 the kind of 19th century in russia
0:11:55 which is that we don't accept the
0:11:56 authority of the government
0:11:58 we don't accept the authority of any
0:12:00 political act fact not just the
0:12:01 government any political actor
0:12:04 you know so
0:12:05 why should these authorities
0:12:08 we don't accept and we don't even we
0:12:10 don't believe it has any value
0:12:12 we shrug our shoulders to nothing
0:12:15 now
0:12:21 going to focusing a little bit on
0:12:23 existentialism it negates obviously
0:12:26 meaning not just it doesn't just negate
0:12:27 purpose but meaning as well
0:12:29 which is deep very deep what
0:12:33 i want you to speak to the person next
0:12:34 to you for the next three minutes what
0:12:36 are the implications the question is
0:12:38 what are the implications of negating
0:12:41 meaning like if you negate the meaning
0:12:45 of things that we can know which is a
0:12:47 pathology things that we can know how we
0:12:49 can make sense of the world
0:12:50 what kind of implications can this have
0:12:52 for three minutes
0:12:53 we need someone to just uh summarize
0:12:55 what we've spoken about so far
0:12:57 because i it might be over complicated
0:12:59 so what
0:13:02 have we spoken about what is what is
0:13:03 nihilism what are the different types of
0:13:05 nihilism
0:13:10 yeah so um yeah yeah yeah we mentioned a
0:13:12 couple yep so you have um existentialism
0:13:15 yes which is obviously to do with
0:13:17 existence so there's no meaning to
0:13:18 existence so there's no meaning to
0:13:20 existence no purpose to existence yep uh
0:13:23 we had as well like we said there's like
0:13:25 political nihilism in the 19th century i
0:13:27 think we said in russia yeah which is to
0:13:29 do with sort of um
0:13:30 kind of denying the authority of the
0:13:32 state that no one should have authority
0:13:33 over me kind of thing yeah um
0:13:36 we said as well uh
0:13:38 man isn't i think we said
0:13:39 epistemological nounism as well yes um
0:13:41 which is basically to do with truth that
0:13:43 we don't believe that this truth is
0:13:45 i guess you could say maybe closely
0:13:46 linked to skepticism but it's all just
0:13:48 like rejecting the whole category
0:13:54 um and then we also had moral nihilism
0:13:57 yes this is important so what is more
0:13:59 nihilism which is basically just um yeah
0:14:02 once again rejecting more values there's
0:14:04 it's not even like this you're saying
0:14:05 it's right or wrong it just doesn't even
0:14:06 matter there's no such thing as right or
0:14:08 wrong there's no such thing as good or
0:14:09 bad this doesn't have any meaning it
0:14:11 doesn't have any
0:14:12 purpose yeah one might say put this
0:14:13 indifference yeah yeah and what do we
0:14:16 say if someone who's a moral nightist
0:14:18 approaches us
0:14:19 starts speaking about islamic uh law and
0:14:22 stuff
0:14:23 justification to do so
0:14:26 yeah so what do they believe nothing
0:14:29 what do they believe about morality that
0:14:30 has no uh moral value there's no value
0:14:33 to morals it's not objective yeah it's
0:14:35 not objective there's no value or that's
0:14:36 correct
0:14:37 so if if morality is not objective that
0:14:39 has no value then why we're discussing
0:14:41 some non-existent thing that has no
0:14:43 value
0:14:46 basically you're basically borrowing
0:14:47 yourself from having an opinion right
0:14:48 you can't know you can't question this
0:14:50 now yeah yeah you have no ground
0:14:52 especially not objectively yes
0:14:53 especially not i mean you can have your
0:14:55 own subjective opinion
0:14:57 but you know an objective
0:14:59 right you can't
0:15:01 is every atheist anointed no
0:15:04 how
0:15:05 we'll come to this okay we'll come
0:15:06 through
0:15:07 when we when we go into what nihilism is
0:15:09 a little bit
0:15:12 we'll know why it's uh we can't say that
0:15:14 all atheists are nice
0:15:16 now what was the question i asked before
0:15:18 the break
0:15:22 what's the result there being no meaning
0:15:24 yeah what are the implications of there
0:15:25 being no meaning
0:15:28 in life existentialism
0:15:32 nothing has purpose
0:15:33 nothing has purpose what's the
0:15:35 implications of that well can we say for
0:15:37 example there is no difference between a
0:15:39 human soul and a chocolate bar they're
0:15:41 all made out of same things and it's a
0:15:42 rearrangement atom so if you just crush
0:15:44 it if they believe in soul
0:15:46 you know those easter bunnies are used
0:15:47 to crush that and kill someone
0:15:49 on their moral grounds like it's the
0:15:51 same
0:15:52 you can't say oh one one you're taking
0:15:54 life no yeah can you say that yeah you
0:15:56 can say that absolutely yeah what else
0:15:57 can you say well in terms of now if
0:15:59 there's no fixed purpose of life
0:16:04 what do we make of life
0:16:08 what are implications of that
0:16:09 implies that
0:16:11 for example hitler it's like uh his
0:16:13 layer has the same value as a kid
0:16:16 or someone that is
0:16:18 anybody so nazism
0:16:20 is in fact it's interesting you
0:16:22 mentioned hitler because hitler used
0:16:24 nietzsche quite explicitly as we've
0:16:25 mentioned right he mentioned the
0:16:27 ubermensch
0:16:28 and he he thought that nazi ideology
0:16:30 represented
0:16:31 the new kind of morality which was being
0:16:33 invented
0:16:34 you know this he actually explicitly
0:16:36 mentioned ubermensch
0:16:38 the super man
0:16:40 in fact the superman
0:16:42 you know the character superman comes
0:16:44 from this
0:16:46 superman
0:16:47 it comes from this idea that
0:16:49 you've destroyed morality he says god is
0:16:51 dead that's what he said famously and
0:16:53 now
0:16:54 you have become the god
0:16:57 basically you have become
0:16:59 you know
0:17:00 anyway i'm moving on
0:17:02 yeah what
0:17:04 [Laughter]
0:17:07 right
0:17:07 well at least god of your own life
0:17:10 that's it but you your life doesn't have
0:17:12 purpose
0:17:13 that's a really good point yeah it's
0:17:15 really good
0:17:16 it's a good point there's no purpose of
0:17:17 doing anything yeah discussing what and
0:17:20 this is something this is
0:17:21 pessimism is it's a good point we're
0:17:23 going to come to this in a second
0:17:24 because it's not on the slide
0:17:27 so the question is like does life have
0:17:29 an objective purpose obviously would be
0:17:30 answered in the negative does life have
0:17:32 a purpose people can point out will be
0:17:34 answered in the negative but why
0:17:36 nihilism in the first place why would
0:17:38 someone come to a conclusion which is
0:17:39 nihilistic
0:17:40 and we spoke about this we talked about
0:17:42 the in this capability of death we all
0:17:44 know we're gonna die and also that we're
0:17:46 suffering therefore
0:17:48 the idea is and this is nietzsche kept
0:17:49 saying this he said that well because of
0:17:51 these two points because of the inner
0:17:53 capability of death and that we are
0:17:54 suffering
0:17:55 we have had to make something up
0:17:59 psychologically
0:18:00 it's too painful to live a life like
0:18:03 this
0:18:04 therefore we as human beings had to and
0:18:07 as cultures as societies have had to
0:18:09 come together
0:18:11 band together
0:18:12 and make something up
0:18:14 whether it's to do with life after death
0:18:16 whether it's to and this is very very
0:18:18 common atheistic propaganda that's what
0:18:21 they say
0:18:22 what religion is to you
0:18:24 is you need it to make sense of your
0:18:25 life to give meaning to your life in
0:18:27 order to
0:18:28 to to to make sense of pain
0:18:32 okay no problem
0:18:34 these are the uh ideas in fact they say
0:18:37 this is how it emerged okay
0:18:39 this is a very it's not just an
0:18:40 atheistic thing by the way this is very
0:18:42 clear anthropological type of reasoning
0:18:45 if you look at just look at what
0:18:47 anthropologists say about the mayans or
0:18:50 about any ancient civilization
0:18:51 babylonians or i don't know
0:18:54 sumerians or something yeah i'll say
0:18:56 well they've they've invented
0:18:58 the epic of gilgamesh or afromaybe you
0:19:00 know in order to they they've
0:19:02 mythologized
0:19:04 uh the narrative in order to
0:19:06 to make sense
0:19:07 of human suffering sacrifice of death of
0:19:10 pain of because human beings are in a
0:19:13 constant perpetual state of pain
0:19:14 buddhism is predicated on this really
0:19:16 like you know if you look at eastern
0:19:17 traditions
0:19:18 life is suffering this is really the
0:19:20 motto of buddhism
0:19:21 and then because the buddha you know
0:19:24 moving here and then just realized so
0:19:25 what do you do you embrace the suffering
0:19:27 you reach the climax of nirvana
0:19:30 you know this yoga comes
0:19:32 from these kinds of notions the
0:19:34 spiritual yoga not the breathing
0:19:35 techniques and this you know we're
0:19:37 talking about spiritualized yoga you
0:19:39 reach uh nirvana and you know the
0:19:42 where
0:19:43 you the high
0:19:44 you realize what life is about and you
0:19:45 give yourself up to the world and you
0:19:47 know these kind of things
0:19:48 obviously we'll come to this but islam
0:19:50 has a completely different notion to
0:19:51 this
0:19:52 but pessimism
0:19:54 is one of the driving forces of nihilism
0:19:57 what's the point anyway
0:20:00 what's the point anyway this is the
0:20:01 question what's the point anyway you're
0:20:03 all going to die
0:20:04 we're all going to be under the grave
0:20:06 the worms are going to eat our body
0:20:08 and
0:20:09 we are basically walking
0:20:11 worm food
0:20:14 can you imagine hemorrhaging such an
0:20:16 insignificant creature as a worm is
0:20:18 going to feast on our bodies and there's
0:20:20 nothing we can do about it
0:20:22 can you imagine this no but it's a
0:20:24 serious
0:20:25 you know
0:20:33 they don't know but reality pessimist is
0:20:34 looking at the you know the glass half
0:20:36 empty all the time you know
0:20:38 but a nihilist you know
0:20:40 what that has no va that has no meaning
0:20:42 the gas being empty or full
0:20:44 it could be empty it could be full it
0:20:45 could be half empty could be half full
0:20:46 it doesn't matter there's no glass
0:20:50 no they might say the glass is there
0:20:52 yeah but they'll say it has no meaning
0:20:53 the
0:20:54 the the amount of the quantity of liquid
0:20:56 in the glass
0:20:57 is inconsequential to our purpose
0:21:00 or inconsequential generally right
0:21:04 also it's no
0:21:06 it's no coincidence that nihilism or
0:21:08 this idea of meaninglessness
0:21:09 purposelessness
0:21:11 came about at the same time when science
0:21:13 became quite popular now you've got to
0:21:15 remember the scientific revolution in
0:21:17 this country which is actually started
0:21:18 in this country like the scientific
0:21:19 revolution site in the 16th century i
0:21:21 don't want to go into a great you know
0:21:23 historical review of how the scientific
0:21:24 revolution happened
0:21:26 but really i'll just tell you something
0:21:27 quick you know in the in the 1500s the
0:21:29 late 1500s
0:21:31 early 1600s
0:21:34 you know
0:21:35 ballistic kind of weaponry and guns and
0:21:38 stuff became popular and so there was a
0:21:40 need for people to study what was then
0:21:42 referred to as natural philosophy
0:21:44 natural philosophy is actually what
0:21:46 science used to be called back in the
0:21:47 day yeah so in the 16th 17th century
0:21:50 they started doing more and more
0:21:51 experimentation
0:21:52 and this became popular in universities
0:21:54 but obviously you have
0:21:55 galileo and copernicus and these kind of
0:21:57 things happened as well the heliocentric
0:21:59 model was established and some see this
0:22:01 as the beginning of the scientific
0:22:02 revolution
0:22:04 so the scientific revolution
0:22:06 in the 16th and 17th centuries in the
0:22:08 united kingdom and then extensions the
0:22:10 colonial extensions and obviously the
0:22:12 western world in general
0:22:13 uh but cited in the united kingdom or
0:22:16 even like concentrating the united
0:22:17 kingdom much of it was at least
0:22:19 uh
0:22:20 the the scientific revolution
0:22:24 i couldn't say it started in the united
0:22:25 kingdom it was in europe actually to be
0:22:27 fair in science where we could say the
0:22:29 industrial revolution started in the
0:22:30 united kingdom and continued but
0:22:33 the scientific revolution
0:22:34 made science not replace but it was a
0:22:37 competitor it was seen
0:22:39 as a competitor to
0:22:41 to
0:22:42 religious discourse now there are
0:22:44 exaggerations made on this like for
0:22:46 example ronald numbers who is a
0:22:48 historian of science
0:22:50 he referred to
0:22:52 he wrote a book called galileo goes to
0:22:54 court or something like this or trial so
0:22:56 galileo goes to trial
0:22:57 and he talks about the fact that you
0:22:59 know how galileo we usually say you know
0:23:02 that he went against the church and he
0:23:04 done you know he'd done so on scientific
0:23:06 authority where the search was preaching
0:23:08 a scriptural authority and there was a
0:23:09 clash and there's this kind of clash
0:23:11 narrative but the truth of the matter is
0:23:13 there was actually more nuance there and
0:23:15 he describes that in the book you know
0:23:16 galileo goes to uh trial and this i
0:23:19 think is an anthology of different
0:23:20 writers writing in this writing in the
0:23:21 same book but the point is is after
0:23:24 science became important we talked about
0:23:26 logical positivism in the thirties nine
0:23:28 days but in between
0:23:30 you could say that there were
0:23:31 competitions that would happen or
0:23:34 rivalries there was there is some truth
0:23:36 in the idea that some people started to
0:23:37 disband in
0:23:39 uh the the train of
0:23:42 of of religion in favor of a scientific
0:23:45 understanding and then this culminated
0:23:47 into what's referred to as scientism now
0:23:50 scientism is the idea that science can
0:23:52 explain the world
0:23:54 scientism is the idea that science can
0:23:55 explain the world that's you know you
0:23:56 don't require a metaphysic
0:23:59 and we spoke about logical positivism
0:24:01 already they're closely related
0:24:03 scientism and logical positivism
0:24:05 anyone who says that the why question
0:24:08 is uh meaningless
0:24:10 would be a sign scientist in the not in
0:24:13 the center not in the laboratory sense
0:24:14 but
0:24:16 a subscriber of scientism
0:24:18 so scientism or the idea that the rise
0:24:20 of science it contributed to nihilism
0:24:23 because no longer now junior metaphysic
0:24:26 this idea would have been successful in
0:24:28 the islamic world
0:24:30 like
0:24:33 they haven't been successful in the
0:24:34 islamic court so
0:24:36 can we say it has to do with the
0:24:38 with the with
0:24:40 the church
0:24:43 this is very difficult counter factual
0:24:45 history
0:24:47 is always a difficulty like dangerous
0:24:48 and difficult and impossible game to
0:24:50 play sometimes because
0:24:52 it's the fact of the matter is nihilism
0:24:53 has not been successful in the in the
0:24:55 muslim world
0:24:57 that of course there are examples of
0:24:59 nihilists
0:25:01 like for example uh with that famous
0:25:03 shad
0:25:05 i forget his name
0:25:07 but there are names there are names of
0:25:08 uh
0:25:10 you know the famous atheists around and
0:25:13 these guys were responded to in like
0:25:15 they existed at the time you know in the
0:25:17 ambassador times and stuff that people
0:25:18 were quite nihilistic in their flavor
0:25:20 like in the way they operated
0:25:23 but what yani were not nihilists wanted
0:25:25 purposes
0:25:26 they were they were few very few in
0:25:28 number the dominant ethic was there was
0:25:30 a purpose of life there's afterlife
0:25:31 there was you know these kinds of things
0:25:33 that was the muslim world
0:25:35 you know
0:25:38 yeah yeah exactly yeah but never this
0:25:40 kind of ideas
0:25:44 right
0:25:45 this is a good question all right but
0:25:47 don't forget it's not just a scientific
0:25:48 or it's a good question scientific
0:25:50 revolution happened in 16th 17th century
0:25:52 but don't forget that there was a
0:25:53 renaissance happening at the same time
0:25:54 and there's also the enlightenment
0:25:55 period that was happening that happened
0:25:57 in 18th and 19th century in addition to
0:25:59 the industrial revolution so you had
0:26:00 more things happening in the west
0:26:02 they also discovered the new world i
0:26:04 mean
0:26:06 they discovered america basically
0:26:07 newfoundland and this and that place and
0:26:10 discovered
0:26:11 and colonialism reached a height in the
0:26:12 british so there was more components
0:26:14 it's diff that's why it's difficult to
0:26:16 sometimes just compare
0:26:18 if i wanted to i can create a religious
0:26:19 narrative but would just not be an
0:26:21 academic so the muslim world was immune
0:26:23 to it because you know we had the
0:26:24 religion of truth full stop but but that
0:26:27 wouldn't go far in an academic
0:26:28 discussion christianity they they
0:26:31 persecuted the
0:26:33 scientists yeah but that's the islamic
0:26:35 lands
0:26:36 it was open to the idea no but this is
0:26:38 seen in the in the history of science as
0:26:40 a misnomer
0:26:42 is seen as is wrong basically seeing is
0:26:44 seen as a misconception
0:26:46 like
0:26:47 as i mentioned david
0:26:49 david lindbergh and ronald numbers and
0:26:51 these guys who actually like
0:26:53 their living is to to discover this
0:26:55 truth of this kind of stuff or not
0:26:57 they they don't agree with that and and
0:26:58 to be fair they have a good point
0:27:00 because you could say well they pro you
0:27:02 know the christian the catholic church
0:27:04 persecuted there's truth in that there
0:27:06 is truth the catholic church but there's
0:27:08 also truth in the fact that much of it
0:27:09 started with the christian world as well
0:27:11 much of much of the these christians
0:27:14 are the one you know people that derived
0:27:16 inspiration from christian texts or at
0:27:18 least from the bible is that you can
0:27:20 make either case
0:27:22 you can make the case i i i could be
0:27:24 very uncharitable and say well it's
0:27:26 impossible
0:27:27 but that would just be uncharitable i i
0:27:29 you know we have to we have to remain
0:27:31 there we can say well the quran the
0:27:33 quran tells us to
0:27:35 to do science and the bible says don't
0:27:36 do it.
0:27:38 but yeah these are impossible cases to
0:27:40 make you know
0:27:41 it's very difficult cases to make it
0:27:43 there have been
0:27:44 anti-scientific
0:27:46 muslims and they have been
0:27:47 anti-scientific christians
0:27:49 it's the truth and
0:27:51 francis bacon and people at some point
0:27:54 they had to assume because you know
0:27:56 throughout history there were so many um
0:28:00 like the people from the church
0:28:03 that were coming out and
0:28:05 like galileo but they couldn't they
0:28:07 couldn't study more because well i know
0:28:10 the story of galileo the story of
0:28:12 galileo has been refuted by many of the
0:28:14 this is what i want to explain to you
0:28:17 that if we if you come with that
0:28:18 rhetoric well galileo was killed because
0:28:21 he went against the helios first of all
0:28:23 let's look at the bible and see what is
0:28:25 what it is
0:28:27 about the heliocentric model that it
0:28:29 really is repudiated in the bible right
0:28:31 number one number two is
0:28:34 yeah once again it's the story is more
0:28:36 nuanced than that
0:28:38 he wasn't killed like this it wasn't it
0:28:40 wasn't like that and that doesn't
0:28:41 represent all the the christian world at
0:28:43 that time
0:28:44 and once again in academia it's this
0:28:47 narrative is untenable
0:28:49 there are narratives there are
0:28:50 narratives in academia which are now
0:28:52 have become redundant that's one of them
0:28:55 that is the only ones who speak like
0:28:57 that are really new atheists and
0:28:58 propagandists
0:28:59 but if you say well the christian church
0:29:02 or sorry the catholic church they they
0:29:04 uh they attacked
0:29:06 you know the
0:29:07 the the the scientists
0:29:10 what what what a sweeping statement to
0:29:11 make
0:29:12 like honestly
0:29:13 when people make statements like that
0:29:15 they just don't they have not read the
0:29:17 books
0:29:19 it's a difficult statement to make just
0:29:20 like saying well the christian world uh
0:29:22 they they punished all the jews
0:29:24 you know all the muslim world punishment
0:29:26 yeah the church but just be aware of
0:29:28 these statements yeah because whenever
0:29:30 you hear people talk like that you know
0:29:32 where the christian world is a 2000 year
0:29:33 old uh thing you know so many countries
0:29:36 so many different empires so many
0:29:38 different we really need to be specific
0:29:40 because that stuff will work if you're
0:29:42 speaking to
0:29:44 a layperson possibly that is already
0:29:46 indoctrinated with that things but it
0:29:48 will not work if you're speaking to an
0:29:50 academic
0:29:52 yeah
0:29:53 i'm just saying that yeah because there
0:29:54 was the social environment
0:29:57 where the uh the church so there's no
0:30:00 science generally in europe yeah
0:30:02 compared to islamic war when this when
0:30:04 these things uh arise
0:30:06 yeah it's like um all the other people
0:30:09 that were kind of trapped in the
0:30:11 ideologies they had something to
0:30:14 um something to follow or something to
0:30:16 like
0:30:17 i don't know if that makes sense i get
0:30:18 where you i understand what you're
0:30:19 saying but
0:30:21 it's known as the church i'm just saying
0:30:22 that the social environment i understand
0:30:24 this but what i want to explain again is
0:30:26 that there were different things that
0:30:28 were happening in europe at the same
0:30:30 time
0:30:31 the renaissance period was happening at
0:30:32 this very similar time to scientific
0:30:34 revolution
0:30:35 and then after that you had the
0:30:36 industrial revolution
0:30:37 and that happened at a very similar time
0:30:39 as the enlightenment period these are
0:30:40 four things you need to know about
0:30:42 you had wars in between you had the
0:30:43 colonial period you had expansion you
0:30:45 had finding of new lands you had all
0:30:47 kinds of things that happened in europe
0:30:49 and what i'm saying is
0:30:52 it's it's more complex than just to say
0:30:54 well the muslim world resisted it and
0:30:55 the christian world didn't
0:30:57 because the truth is
0:30:59 the muslim world didn't have the
0:31:00 equivalent of the enlightenment period
0:31:03 for better or for worse i mean for
0:31:05 better or for worse well i didn't have
0:31:06 the you know the sprouting up
0:31:08 of
0:31:09 five or ten major
0:31:11 ideologies which we've all covered today
0:31:13 you know
0:31:14 uh liberalism and
0:31:16 some of the some of these ideologies
0:31:17 they happened they came about in the
0:31:19 alignment period when you have
0:31:21 liberalism
0:31:22 became in the 60s just by you know his
0:31:25 important point in the 60s most
0:31:26 sociologists would argue it became a
0:31:28 replacement for religion
0:31:31 it became a replacement for religion so
0:31:33 this is another thing right so because
0:31:34 liberalism became a replacement for
0:31:36 religion then you're not just leaving
0:31:38 off
0:31:39 religion for science you're leaving off
0:31:40 religion for science and liberalism
0:31:43 so it fulfills the moral element
0:31:45 liberalism follows the moral element for
0:31:46 example or secular liberalism or marxism
0:31:49 whatever ism right it gives you the
0:31:53 the the religious element that you need
0:31:54 the moral element and then you've got
0:31:56 you know scientism or science
0:31:59 that fulfills the you know the
0:32:01 cosmological element so you can make
0:32:03 sense of the world and now you've got
0:32:04 morality and you don't need now the full
0:32:06 replacement has been done
0:32:08 but the reason why the muslim world
0:32:09 hasn't seen the same levels of
0:32:11 convergent converter conversion to
0:32:13 atheism agnosticism
0:32:15 or
0:32:16 other isms is because we don't we did
0:32:19 not have the equivalent to
0:32:21 the enlightenment period or the
0:32:22 renaissance period or even the
0:32:24 industrial revolution like
0:32:25 there's lots of things we just didn't
0:32:26 have
0:32:28 so
0:32:29 yeah but maybe that's the you can you
0:32:31 can of course we would argue you know
0:32:33 but we have to argue that on his own
0:32:34 merit
0:32:35 now we move on to the second uh bit
0:32:40 nietzsche so as we've mentioned he says
0:32:43 that we need religion to fill meaning
0:32:45 it's a psychological need
0:32:46 now you will notice obviously this is no
0:32:48 argument against religion
0:32:50 in fact it's the genetic fallacy
0:32:52 it is this is called the genetic fallacy
0:32:55 the genetic fallacy is to say something
0:32:56 is wrong
0:32:58 if it's made in those terms obviously he
0:33:00 was very careful nietzsche was not going
0:33:01 to say
0:33:02 uh you know you you made religion
0:33:04 therefore religion is wrong or something
0:33:06 he doesn't say like that he's very
0:33:06 careful philosopher
0:33:08 however
0:33:10 if and what we're seeing today in new
0:33:12 atheist rhetoric is you guys need
0:33:14 religion in order to make sense of the
0:33:16 world therefore religion is false or
0:33:19 therefore the religion is man-made
0:33:21 this construction is fallacious it's the
0:33:24 genetic fallacy because
0:33:26 first and foremost
0:33:27 you don't know for sure where religion
0:33:28 has been made or where it's been
0:33:30 produced yeah and secondly even if it
0:33:32 was produced by whatever it was produced
0:33:34 where you think it was produced doesn't
0:33:35 make it true or false
0:33:38 just
0:33:39 outlining the origin of something
0:33:40 doesn't mean this makes it false okay
0:33:43 so
0:33:46 he mentions and this is very interesting
0:33:48 actually nietzsche himself says it is
0:33:50 true there could be a metaphysical world
0:33:51 the absolute possibility of it is hardly
0:33:53 to be disputed so when it came to
0:33:56 metaphysics and you know the after world
0:33:58 and all this kind of thing nietzsche
0:33:59 wasn't saying there was no afterwards he
0:34:00 said it's true not possible you know
0:34:02 shrugging his shoulders
0:34:04 you can't refute it so he had like very
0:34:06 much an agnostic position and this is
0:34:08 where they kind of end off you know
0:34:12 and he says every belief um
0:34:15 every considering something true
0:34:17 is necessarily false because there is
0:34:19 simply no true world
0:34:20 so
0:34:21 it would seem that these two statements
0:34:23 conflict with one another
0:34:25 in one on the one hand he's saying
0:34:27 there's no such thing as a true world
0:34:30 and the other thing is it's possible
0:34:31 there could
0:34:32 be i mean
0:34:34 on the face of his contradiction on the
0:34:36 face of it is a contradiction
0:34:38 and but then you could argue that he was
0:34:41 just
0:34:42 and this is what his defenders would say
0:34:44 his defenders would say that he meant it
0:34:46 in a way that
0:34:48 there isn't we don't know for sure it
0:34:50 was more of an epistemological claim
0:34:52 but the truth of the matter is he was
0:34:54 just rambling uh he was rambling if you
0:34:55 look at his book try read his books try
0:34:57 and read nature's go home today and
0:34:59 write the right beyond good and evil uh
0:35:01 pdf or gay the gay science you know pdf
0:35:04 one of his books just read them and see
0:35:06 how he writes he doesn't even organize
0:35:08 his
0:35:08 you know things into paragraphs and it's
0:35:10 not easily it's not intelligible it's
0:35:12 not easily
0:35:13 followed but if you if you unencrypt it
0:35:16 you'll realize actually this guy is
0:35:18 very clever yeah he he knows what he's
0:35:20 saying
0:35:22 but you know you need someone to kind of
0:35:24 do
0:35:26 you know it's it's difficult to
0:35:27 understand what he's trying to say now
0:35:30 let's contrast this with the islamic
0:35:31 model right
0:35:33 and
0:35:34 this is what we do you know let's let's
0:35:36 think about the question of purpose in
0:35:38 islam
0:35:39 i always speak to the person next year
0:35:40 for three four minutes
0:35:42 and
0:35:43 what do you think obviously there's
0:35:44 going to be some easy things but i want
0:35:45 you to i'm going to tell you to focus on
0:35:46 what in fact here just so you don't
0:35:49 go astray
0:35:52 i want you to think about islam islam's
0:35:54 stance on pessimism and or optimism
0:35:57 the reality of the world according to
0:35:59 islam and also i want you to answer a
0:36:00 question which is very important
0:36:01 question
0:36:02 of mental health in islam
0:36:04 because this is very depressing just
0:36:06 going through what nihilis believe but a
0:36:08 question of depression itself what does
0:36:10 islam say about it
0:36:12 this is important for especially for
0:36:14 dawah for for discussions or for
0:36:16 pastoral purposes these three things
0:36:19 because we can link that
0:36:20 with uh what we spoke about today so
0:36:23 just to recap it's all of the final
0:36:25 slide
0:36:26 but we talk about the purpose of life in
0:36:28 islam optimism and pessimism in islam
0:36:31 uh the truth of the world what the world
0:36:33 is and obviously
0:36:34 and finally we said um
0:36:36 mental health the idea of depression how
0:36:38 do you what is it what is depression
0:36:41 how is uh can
0:36:42 can we be depressed as muslims you know
0:36:46 questions like that is it wrong to
0:36:47 believe is it a sign of weak faith you
0:36:49 know you know
0:36:50 anyway
0:36:51 look over it and uh let me know
0:36:56 so what was the first thing we talked
0:36:57 about the purpose of life in islam uh
0:37:00 mental health is the last thing we're
0:37:01 talking about
0:37:02 and this we have to get this right by
0:37:04 the way
0:37:05 you know as muslims as people that are
0:37:07 living in society not just for ourselves
0:37:09 but for our family members
0:37:11 mental health is you know very important
0:37:13 to to understand the islamic position
0:37:15 because i think people misappropriate or
0:37:17 misunderstand the islamic position
0:37:19 quite regularly and in fact their
0:37:21 misunderstanding of it can create major
0:37:24 problems for muslims in this uh
0:37:26 in this world and in fact it can cause
0:37:28 people to leave islam
0:37:30 it's
0:37:32 i have had conversations with mache
0:37:40 honestly and some of them don't even
0:37:42 believe in it so i say there's no such
0:37:44 thing as depression and you know stuff
0:37:46 like that it really just like for me
0:37:48 it's ignorance all that is this is
0:37:51 ignorance and if you
0:37:54 will come to the air very good yeah
0:37:56 well the point is is
0:37:59 when you come with that kind of attitude
0:38:01 to someone who's in pain
0:38:04 it can really
0:38:06 hurt them however on the other hand
0:38:08 there is that i would call it the
0:38:10 liberal extreme as well
0:38:12 the liberal extreme is everything that
0:38:13 everything is so painful everything is
0:38:16 it's like you're touching a prick you
0:38:17 know we're talking about it in fact i
0:38:19 want you know the people that pulled out
0:38:21 of uh sports events and depression and
0:38:23 these kind of things you know
0:38:24 we spoke about that and that's it's
0:38:26 almost like you're celebrated for for
0:38:27 being
0:38:28 a coward or a loser
0:38:30 you know or something yeah some people
0:38:32 that they they play that card too much
0:38:36 your pain is the center of all pain
0:38:38 is that the other extreme is the other
0:38:40 extreme what about you
0:38:42 and just add to that you know in in
0:38:43 counseling and we spoke about this you
0:38:45 know counselling which is based on
0:38:47 psychoanalytic principles a lot of the
0:38:49 time they will they will
0:38:51 allow you
0:38:53 to keep talking about how
0:38:55 how big your pain is
0:38:57 and and they will not even stand and say
0:38:59 well this and let's compare it with this
0:39:00 and us
0:39:01 well we know from the prophetic models
0:39:03 we come to maybe when we talk about
0:39:04 mental health that the prophet muhammad
0:39:07 he was he he used to mention
0:39:09 the the torture of people that came
0:39:11 before
0:39:13 he used to to put things in perspective
0:39:15 the idea of actually and this goes to
0:39:17 nihilism a little bit right
0:39:19 in the grand scheme of things how big is
0:39:21 your pain really
0:39:23 you know because the idea of making your
0:39:25 pain too big how's that gonna that could
0:39:27 be counterintuitive
0:39:28 yeah you sit in there for 80
0:39:30 percent of the time on a chair which is
0:39:33 the counseling approach of the
0:39:34 psychoanalysts
0:39:36 talking cure they call it and sometimes
0:39:37 it can be a talking
0:39:40 a disease
0:39:41 because you're making yourself sick by
0:39:43 just sitting there
0:39:44 and just you know i've got this and that
0:39:46 problem and the idea is
0:39:48 psychoanalytically you should be solving
0:39:49 your own problems coming to term with
0:39:51 your own things but actually you could
0:39:52 be just triggering yourself triggering
0:39:54 yourself you could be making yourself
0:39:56 your pain worse
0:39:57 and we consider these two things as
0:39:59 failures
0:40:00 there are two failed approaches the
0:40:02 correct islamic approach and there's
0:40:03 there should be good work that's been
0:40:05 done and there is actually something
0:40:06 that is being done already is to combine
0:40:08 the islamic model and there is an
0:40:10 islamic model
0:40:11 with some something of the
0:40:13 psychoanalytic model
0:40:14 people that are specialists in
0:40:16 psychology psychiatry have had years in
0:40:18 the field should actually step up to the
0:40:20 plate with these things and i don't
0:40:22 think that
0:40:23 it's been done in the way that we should
0:40:25 have done it you know honestly
0:40:26 but anyway
0:40:29 moving on
0:40:30 the first thing what is the purpose of
0:40:31 life in islam
0:40:37 yeah yeah worship allah
0:40:39 serve is a bit weak i wouldn't use the
0:40:41 word surf i would use serve you can
0:40:43 serve your parents you can serve
0:40:45 but worship
0:40:46 what is now
0:40:48 this might be a very difficult question
0:40:49 what is worship
0:40:52 i think when we talk about worship
0:40:54 a lot of people break it down to the
0:40:56 first thing that comes to head is salah
0:40:58 like five times a day
0:41:00 um when allah says for example we did
0:41:02 not create mankind except to worship us
0:41:05 is that it's um talking about like i was
0:41:07 talking to a this this guy came to
0:41:09 interview me in the park and he was like
0:41:11 okay you know let's put it down to us
0:41:13 let's talk about you know the day-to-day
0:41:14 activity you know like football i said
0:41:17 why is islam out of that like every time
0:41:19 i had the conversation i was trying to
0:41:20 bring allah into it it's not that he was
0:41:22 taking allah out of it but he
0:41:24 had like um as if there's his religious
0:41:26 duties and there's your day-to-day life
0:41:28 and i was like
0:41:30 and every time i mentioned for example
0:41:32 something else or like eating going out
0:41:34 holiday whatever every time but allah
0:41:36 into it says if he was saying look okay
0:41:37 we'll talk about that later and i said i
0:41:38 think he didn't really understand well
0:41:40 the point i was trying to make was
0:41:42 all of these elements allah is in there
0:41:43 for example before we say bismillah
0:41:45 that's the form of ibadah you know
0:41:47 everything that we do in our life from
0:41:49 intimacy to going to the toilet to
0:41:52 which feet that we enter the toilet with
0:41:54 it is all a form of ibadah
0:41:57 that's what i would say i don't know
0:41:58 what he would say but um about how funny
0:42:00 more fundamentally what is worship
0:42:03 it's that it's when allah says that he
0:42:04 did not create us with anything except
0:42:06 to worship him is for example if i'm not
0:42:09 doing that i'll be doing something else
0:42:11 so i have to be in constant remembrance
0:42:12 of allah not necessarily saying
0:42:14 so how would you define it
0:42:17 your whole way is it's a way of life
0:42:19 everything that you implement in your
0:42:20 life we have something like
0:42:22 we are told when before we eat we say
0:42:24 say bismillah eat with your right hand
0:42:26 these are all ibadah
0:42:28 but you're giving examples of it
0:42:30 what do you mean
0:42:31 no
0:42:32 the the the question is you've given
0:42:34 examples of uh of worship yeah okay but
0:42:37 what is worship
0:42:40 so watching god
0:42:42 by doing what god is
0:42:45 god told us to do
0:42:48 so what if so when your parents tell you
0:42:50 what to do are you worshiping your
0:42:52 parents
0:42:53 yeah i'm not worshiping like i'm sorry
0:42:57 no no being obedient to them is being
0:42:59 obedient
0:43:01 but if it's just listening to what
0:43:03 someone has to do if you have an
0:43:04 employer in a job and he tells you what
0:43:06 to do then you are you worshiping them
0:43:09 no but god just god doesn't just say
0:43:12 stuff to do but like
0:43:13 how to worship what's good
0:43:16 yes what about submitting
0:43:19 household
0:43:20 and whatever
0:43:23 because it's the whole fundamental thing
0:43:25 is submitted
0:43:26 submitting yeah
0:43:29 in what way
0:43:30 in every way between what we're
0:43:31 everywhere
0:43:33 and you don't pick and choose you know
0:43:34 it's like allah says you don't pick from
0:43:35 the book like oh i like this i don't
0:43:36 know you submit fully
0:43:38 i think you're onto something i'm always
0:43:39 on to something
0:43:40 [Laughter]
0:43:42 but you want to add to it
0:43:45 oh you wanna might go what is worship
0:43:47 even tamiya has the definition
0:43:49 resulted
0:43:50 he said this
0:43:51 complete submissiveness and love
0:43:53 that was the definition
0:43:55 that's one of his definitions yeah he's
0:43:57 it
0:43:58 is the other definition that he had was
0:44:00 that and this is the one that ibraheem
0:44:01 took was uh
0:44:03 anything that pleases allah
0:44:05 anything that he pleases him then to
0:44:07 love anything that pleases him and to
0:44:09 not not love anything that he he just
0:44:12 doesn't
0:44:13 like
0:44:14 this please but the thing is that these
0:44:16 you can you could
0:44:19 manipulate these uh definitions in a
0:44:21 sense i mean in a sense like
0:44:24 another very common definition is
0:44:35 which is like the the the pinnacle of uh
0:44:37 love and the pinnacle of
0:44:40 submissiveness or humility and
0:44:42 and uh and or and fear
0:44:46 but then if someone if someone dies and
0:44:48 they have an infatuation with a woman
0:44:51 they love her so much are they
0:44:52 committing shirk by doing that
0:45:00 where it goes to the boundaries of
0:45:01 where you are that you die for that
0:45:03 person yeah but would it be because
0:45:04 this person going to hell now
0:45:08 without the liner but it doesn't say he
0:45:10 doesn't ever mention it right i don't
0:45:11 think anyone does yeah yeah no so
0:45:15 the point to be honest with you it's
0:45:17 controversial and i think abdulbar
0:45:19 mentions this the the definition of
0:45:21 i know it sounds very fundamental right
0:45:23 but
0:45:24 how are you not worshiping it
0:45:26 uh not die for it
0:45:29 suicide if you're ready to take your
0:45:31 life or like well like your mother's
0:45:32 doing it for a child if that person
0:45:33 leaves
0:45:34 if that's if the mother covers the child
0:45:36 because she wants to protect it
0:45:38 i'm not talking about that why not
0:45:39 no because that is you can do it for the
0:45:41 sake of allah
0:45:42 not by you know that if you're not if
0:45:44 say for example she's not doing a
0:45:45 foreseeable life is now she worshipping
0:45:47 the child
0:45:49 what if she's willing to die for it
0:45:51 yeah no one would say that by the way
0:45:55 no one will say that
0:45:57 yeah
0:46:00 have it comprehensive because especially
0:46:01 if someone asks you like it was the
0:46:02 purpose of my life yeah it says like
0:46:04 having the appropriate relationship with
0:46:06 allah like the relationship that you
0:46:08 have allah should be as if that you
0:46:11 should strive to have that relationship
0:46:12 as it should be i'm just kind of
0:46:13 thinking in terms of like
0:46:14 perfection of islam being
0:46:16 like
0:46:17 it's so related to what everyone was
0:46:18 saying it's like being in every moment
0:46:20 you're kind of present of that fact that
0:46:22 like in your life you're trying to get
0:46:23 closer to allah you're trying to you
0:46:25 know get closer because you recognize
0:46:26 that that's really like the essence of
0:46:28 what existence is and that's what yeah
0:46:29 so now you've moved on to what the
0:46:30 purpose of life is right but we had the
0:46:32 fundamental issue which is what how do
0:46:34 you define worship because it's worship
0:46:36 god
0:46:37 and the
0:46:38 the idea is is that worship is a
0:46:40 controversial the definition of worship
0:46:42 is controversial in islam
0:46:44 it's actually controversial
0:46:45 people don't realize how controversial
0:46:47 it is now all of these definitions that
0:46:49 we have even tame me as one and the
0:46:51 other one you know
0:46:55 they all have some elements of truth but
0:46:56 it's difficult to the thing is it's
0:46:59 difficult to
0:47:00 isolate
0:47:02 such an action as worship in a few lines
0:47:06 that's how deep it is actually
0:47:09 and they've been saying himself he said
0:47:10 you can't in his book
0:47:14 he mentions that you know
0:47:15 a tariff like a something which is a
0:47:17 definition
0:47:19 or had he called
0:47:20 he calls it yeah
0:47:22 as um
0:47:24 you can't really have a hud which is uh
0:47:27 all-inclusive or definition which is all
0:47:29 inclusive now clearly this would be the
0:47:32 case even more so with something like
0:47:33 worship
0:47:34 so we know the individual associations
0:47:36 of worship
0:47:37 but a a definition which which totally
0:47:40 explains all aspects of worship i
0:47:43 haven't come across
0:47:45 a definition which does that
0:47:47 and i know that might sound but we know
0:47:49 what a worshiper looks like
0:47:50 a worshiper is somebody
0:47:52 who is in
0:47:54 because that what is the word in arabic
0:47:57 it's slave that's what it means it means
0:47:59 someone is in full submission
0:48:01 to
0:48:02 to whoever it may be in fact
0:48:05 and the level of submissiveness
0:48:08 that the slave must have to allah
0:48:11 is ultimate but also voluntary
0:48:13 these are important things
0:48:15 like the difference between human
0:48:17 slavery and child slavery and the
0:48:19 slavery to god
0:48:21 is that the slavery to god has to be
0:48:22 voluntary you have to do it yourself you
0:48:24 have to want to do that you don't you're
0:48:25 not doing that by force
0:48:27 so it's
0:48:29 a bit of an irony that you free yourself
0:48:30 from being completely enslaved
0:48:33 you know we were talked about in the
0:48:34 that's the islamic paradigm
0:48:38 we talked before about russo's famous
0:48:40 quote that you're born free and
0:48:42 everywhere in chains
0:48:45 islam would say you're never
0:48:46 you're never born free
0:48:48 you're never born free
0:48:50 you're everywhere in chains now the only
0:48:52 thing islam would say is you decide what
0:48:54 change you want to be in
0:48:57 you know and you can either be in the
0:48:59 chains of unworthy
0:49:02 ones or you'll be on the chains of the
0:49:04 worthy one the one that's worthy of
0:49:06 worship
0:49:07 and we talked about the fact that god is
0:49:08 worthy of worship that's the reason why
0:49:10 we worship god because he's worthy of
0:49:12 worship you know
0:49:13 and the the verse which i think is most
0:49:16 uh illustrative of this reality is the
0:49:18 one in zumar
0:49:20 well
0:49:22 uh he he talks about
0:49:25 the the the
0:49:28 uh
0:49:43 that a man who has many different slave
0:49:46 owners or a man who has one slave owner
0:49:49 hell yesterday are these two the same
0:49:52 alhamdulillah that they says that praise
0:49:56 be to god to you know the point is is
0:49:58 that you decide what chains you want
0:50:00 it's not that it's an illusion to think
0:50:02 that we're free in any sense
0:50:04 we we are in the islamic model says
0:50:06 you've got you are born in chains
0:50:09 but you only decide what chains you want
0:50:11 to be in
0:50:12 and we say that
0:50:14 voluntarily if you decide to have a
0:50:16 relationship with the old mighty one
0:50:19 which is of full submission
0:50:21 then that way that's that type of
0:50:23 slavery and it is a slavery it's
0:50:26 basically slavery would liberate you
0:50:29 that's the only slavery that would
0:50:30 liberate you
0:50:32 and that's that's the only slavery by
0:50:33 the way that you can have
0:50:36 the only one worthy of that type of
0:50:37 slavery is
0:50:38 god not human beings
0:50:41 there's no other human being or creation
0:50:45 that there's no obedience to the
0:50:46 creation in the disobedience of the
0:50:48 creator
0:50:49 that's the purpose of life therefore
0:50:52 from the islamic paradigm is a total
0:50:54 enslavement to the one who created you
0:50:56 and the one who maintains you
0:50:57 because free will is an illusion
0:51:00 uh well you do have free will but
0:51:03 the idea that you can do something
0:51:05 outside of the dominion of god that's
0:51:06 illusory
0:51:08 so there's there are some inter
0:51:10 interesting uh
0:51:11 points of comparison between nihilism
0:51:13 and islam
0:51:15 and the fact that we do have a
0:51:16 deconstructionist idea as well
0:51:19 you know there's no god worthy of
0:51:21 worship except for allah but instead of
0:51:23 making ourselves
0:51:24 mention
0:51:26 you know we we we designate that or we
0:51:29 defer that or confer that
0:51:31 to the almighty one that's worthy of
0:51:34 worship
0:51:34 so that's the first thing the second
0:51:36 thing we talked about was what
0:51:38 the reality of this world
0:51:41 so what did you have to say about that
0:51:44 what does islam say about the reality of
0:51:45 this world
0:51:54 i actually said that it's quite ironic
0:51:56 because you could say there's even some
0:51:57 sort of similarities in the sense of
0:51:58 what's what the nihilists are saying
0:52:00 because i like from islamic standpoint
0:52:02 you
0:52:06 just like you know it's just kind of
0:52:08 fleeting enjoyment it's this kind of
0:52:10 base this doesn't really have any proper
0:52:12 route to it but it's it's
0:52:14 that approach to the world is understood
0:52:16 within
0:52:17 the the idea that there is an ahra
0:52:20 and so it's not that this world is this
0:52:23 world has less meaning but that's
0:52:24 because
0:52:25 the next life has more meaning and so
0:52:28 it's it is really significant and that's
0:52:30 kind of how it works that's exactly how
0:52:32 it works and so what it's a good summary
0:52:34 is anyone have anything add to that
0:52:37 yeah so the idea that this world it's
0:52:39 real it's a real world but because
0:52:42 of its comparative insignificance
0:52:46 you know
0:52:47 with the hereafter
0:52:48 it's
0:52:49 it's almost like a drop that's falling
0:52:51 from the sky
0:52:53 so this idea of scale is is a point of
0:52:55 comparison when we compare the dunya to
0:52:57 the
0:52:58 the world this this life with the
0:53:00 hereafter and we realize how
0:53:01 insignificant it is
0:53:03 but just i want the implication here is
0:53:05 actually quite important
0:53:06 and it might just sound like a
0:53:07 straightforward thing to say but imagine
0:53:09 you are
0:53:10 on
0:53:11 a deathbed
0:53:13 for a second just imagine
0:53:15 now i'm not saying therefore islam is
0:53:17 true this is not an argument for islam
0:53:18 by the way i'm just saying the
0:53:19 implication the epistle or the
0:53:22 existential implication is quite
0:53:23 important
0:53:24 if you are about to die
0:53:26 you have been diagnosed with some kind
0:53:28 of killer disease
0:53:30 and um
0:53:32 you have been told that you have
0:53:34 some months to live some weeks to live
0:53:35 some days to live
0:53:37 and you are a nihilist
0:53:39 so you think that
0:53:41 well
0:53:42 i'm gonna it's no point anyway
0:53:45 you have maybe you have family members
0:53:46 that you love maybe you have friends
0:53:48 that you love
0:53:50 all of that is actually pointless
0:53:51 because you are just going to your death
0:53:53 in your life are the same like the fact
0:53:55 that you're alive and the fact that your
0:53:56 death is no meaningfulness in either of
0:53:58 those two things both of those two
0:54:00 things are the same
0:54:02 just just imagine for a second what kind
0:54:04 of frame of mind you would have
0:54:09 sometimes this is more important and
0:54:11 more influential than arguments
0:54:13 just think for a second imagine how you
0:54:14 would like put yourself in that position
0:54:16 how would you feel there's nothing
0:54:18 that's going to happen i'm going to
0:54:19 cease to exist
0:54:21 and potentially that will be better
0:54:22 because
0:54:23 me ceasing to exist maybe it will
0:54:24 alleviate me from some suffering
0:54:28 my suffering has meant it's been
0:54:29 fruitless and has meant nothing has been
0:54:31 in vain
0:54:32 and my death is in vain and my life
0:54:34 isn't there everything is in vain
0:54:43 they act like like there's nothing there
0:54:45 so i mean they act like normal
0:54:48 no no i can assure you they don't feel
0:54:50 normal you know this maybe we would say
0:54:52 about it yeah
0:54:54 it's it's a very depressing it's an
0:54:55 extremely depressing thing yeah i have
0:54:58 um
0:54:59 our friend that is working
0:55:01 we are all people
0:55:05 yeah he's 98 and he's
0:55:08 you can see he's about to like
0:55:10 pass you know to next
0:55:12 and
0:55:13 he has the same routine
0:55:16 as you used to have
0:55:18 back in his 50s or 40s nothing has
0:55:22 changed same mentality same routine
0:55:24 everything is the same sometimes you can
0:55:25 have the same routine but you can have
0:55:27 different conceptions and thoughts
0:55:29 you see maybe
0:55:30 like you know like the truth of the
0:55:32 matter is like you know this is an
0:55:34 existential problem like if someone is
0:55:36 about to die and
0:55:38 everyone people might have different
0:55:40 reactions but just put yourself in that
0:55:41 position
0:55:43 compare that with a position that says
0:55:45 actually there's something that's going
0:55:45 to happen afterwards and this is this
0:55:48 has been insignificant however the next
0:55:49 chapter
0:55:51 like
0:55:53 just just put yourself in that position
0:55:54 like life is like if you believe in
0:55:56 hereafter it's like life is just about
0:55:58 to begin yes yeah instead of life is
0:56:00 just about to end yes yeah and not just
0:56:03 that but my pain has been meaningful now
0:56:04 i'm going to be rested
0:56:06 it's
0:56:07 so this moves on to our next point which
0:56:09 is optimism and pessimism so what does
0:56:11 islam say about about that do you have
0:56:12 any idea
0:56:15 i think um i don't know if it's a hadith
0:56:17 but it talks about the bird um so one
0:56:20 side is
0:56:21 mercy
0:56:23 yeah so um one side is hope and fear
0:56:25 open fear and you need to have both
0:56:27 because if you have too much hope
0:56:29 um this will lead to false hope which
0:56:31 will lead you to go astray if you have
0:56:33 too much despair then obviously we
0:56:35 should discuss some without creams when
0:56:38 allah says you know only
0:56:40 those who disbelieve the spell last
0:56:42 mercy so it can both can lead to a
0:56:44 disaster but you know if you have a
0:56:46 balance of fear and hope it will keep
0:56:48 you balanced but pessimism is not fair
0:56:51 it's okay
0:56:52 so
0:56:53 pessimism yes
0:56:55 pessimism is the opposite of optimism
0:56:57 so but that's true somebody thinks we
0:56:59 have a lot of people who speak to which
0:57:00 they're like you know i'm gonna go hell
0:57:02 fire i've done this right like there's
0:57:04 no hope in them they're pessimists they
0:57:06 don't see any like but jannah allah's
0:57:07 mercy no allah won't forgive me
0:57:10 what's the difference pessimism or
0:57:13 having an expectation which is negative
0:57:16 or having expectations which are
0:57:17 negative not necessarily expectations
0:57:19 which are possible
0:57:20 because if there was a realism you know
0:57:23 it would be like oh this is possibly the
0:57:25 case this is not the case yeah
0:57:26 like the half
0:57:28 half empty half full scenario if you're
0:57:30 looking at the heart the cup half empty
0:57:32 you're looking at the bad aspect of it
0:57:34 or the negative aspect of it exactly
0:57:35 that's that's exactly what's happening
0:57:37 here they're looking at one aspect which
0:57:39 is hellfire but they're totally ignoring
0:57:42 paradise allah's mercy
0:57:43 you know and allah says
0:57:46 that allies to his servants how he
0:57:48 thinks of him that's a good habit so so
0:57:50 yes that is more to incline it to
0:57:53 to be optimist but then again
0:57:56 it's it's it's it's both i think i think
0:57:58 you have to have the balance of both
0:58:00 either two optimists or two pessimists
0:58:02 so so basically there is actually hadith
0:58:04 on this um
0:58:06 the hadith
0:58:08 the arabic word uses
0:58:12 which means optimism
0:58:14 and
0:58:15 the
0:58:16 the clear message in islam is that you
0:58:18 have to be optimistic
0:58:20 that's a very clear message the the the
0:58:22 the the hadith
0:58:24 so the prophet said that you know and
0:58:26 fell as part of the religion or that
0:58:27 optimism is part of the religion
0:58:30 and some scholars have said like for
0:58:31 example if you make a dua and it starts
0:58:33 raining outside
0:58:35 you should take that as a good sign
0:58:38 because it's fair it's obvious you
0:58:40 should be optimistic you shouldn't be
0:58:42 looking at negative aspects and things
0:58:44 like that and the hadith you mentioned
0:58:45 is actually one of the key i'm the
0:58:46 hadith foundation hadi's and the um
0:58:52 i am as my servant thinks of me
0:58:55 so let him think good of me this is
0:58:56 hadith says it doesn't say the lame
0:58:58 thing bad is everything good once again
0:59:01 you know another thing in the quran is
0:59:02 very clear which is when the prophet and
0:59:06 abu bakr says when they were migrating
0:59:08 and prophet was a wanted man he's a
0:59:10 fugitive and they were going from mecca
0:59:12 to medina and then he went to harthou
0:59:15 into that particular cave
0:59:17 and the the people the assailants or the
0:59:20 ones who wanted to catch the prophet
0:59:21 they went into the cave
0:59:24 and abu bakr got
0:59:26 had a reaction to that
0:59:28 and then the quran ruled some ayat
0:59:34 it says don't be
0:59:37 don't be sad allah is with us
0:59:40 now bear in mind it doesn't say let's
0:59:43 don't be scared because you'd expect him
0:59:45 to be scared
0:59:46 you know the guys just come in they're
0:59:47 going to kill him and this and that
0:59:49 but the quran states
0:59:52 that the prophet state he's quoting
0:59:54 allah is quoting the prophet saying that
0:59:56 don't
0:59:57 be sad allah is with us
0:59:59 so this is this is move the movement
1:00:02 towards optimism in other words even in
1:00:03 the most dire situation
1:00:06 where you
1:00:07 people are literally at the doorstep
1:00:09 with swords and you're outnumbered
1:00:12 don't be sad in that situation
1:00:15 meaning you have to be as optimistic as
1:00:17 possible even in that situation where it
1:00:18 seems like there's nothing nothing left
1:00:20 and this is the attitude that the sahaba
1:00:23 took which allowed them to win wars
1:00:25 you can't have you cannot win wars you
1:00:27 cannot win fight and you cannot win life
1:00:29 unless you have confidence and you have
1:00:31 optimism it's
1:00:32 it would be very difficult to do that
1:00:35 so the the islamic message is yes of
1:00:37 course you have to have hope and fear
1:00:39 hope and fear is good is
1:00:41 disincentivizing sometimes
1:00:43 it's important
1:00:44 but you should never
1:00:46 have pessimism
1:00:48 pessimism looking at things in a
1:00:49 negative manner
1:00:52 not not realism or or fear
1:00:55 if you think this bad thing is going to
1:00:56 happen to me this bad thing is going to
1:00:58 happen
1:00:59 this actually is
1:01:01 against islam
1:01:04 it's against islam islam is an
1:01:06 optimistic religion
1:01:07 which means
1:01:09 you you always have to think the best is
1:01:10 going to happen
1:01:12 and in fact that's
1:01:13 mentioned
1:01:16 he mentions uh when you're making dua
1:01:19 your supplication he mentions six
1:01:20 conditions for the diet to be accepted
1:01:23 it's application to be accepted
1:01:24 and one of them is you have to believe
1:01:27 that allah will do it
1:01:29 and he says
1:01:31 that you have to you have to be
1:01:32 consistent in supplicating like i'll
1:01:34 just come once allah do it for me you
1:01:36 have to be sure you know
1:01:39 you know you talked about when they run
1:01:40 away yeah um he actually made the dua
1:01:42 and he packed his bags
1:01:44 as if that do i was accepted and that
1:01:46 was the dua where he wanted to go on the
1:01:47 journey with the process
1:01:49 when they um you know migrated he
1:01:52 actually packed his bags as if like he
1:01:54 made the dua and he stopped packing his
1:01:55 bags as if he's already accepted
1:01:58 unbelievable isn't it and that's the
1:01:59 that's that's that is the islamic spirit
1:02:02 that is the islamic
1:02:05 when spirit hour strikes and you have
1:02:07 like a seed or punch you still plant it
1:02:09 right it's like you know beautiful
1:02:10 excellent and you know there's a verse
1:02:12 in the quran
1:02:13 where they're going into war now
1:02:16 and it was like they were outnumbered
1:02:18 and the
1:02:25 do you give us any respite except that
1:02:27 we may give
1:02:28 receive one of the two good things
1:02:30 two good things is death is seen as good
1:02:32 here if you get killed in the war
1:02:36 it's seen as good because you either get
1:02:37 killed you be a mata or you become
1:02:39 victorious that's interesting that's
1:02:40 what allah says do not say to the
1:02:42 martyrs that they are dead
1:02:43 yes even when you say they say don't
1:02:45 think they are they are with their lord
1:02:46 yes so the one way you know
1:02:48 they're in they're in a better position
1:02:49 even when you think of that yeah allah
1:02:51 negates death to them like they're not
1:02:52 that they were there and this is this is
1:02:54 so important that we
1:02:55 we talked about this already like even
1:02:56 from a secular perspective they realize
1:02:58 they'll say this is all a placebo effect
1:03:01 but the placebo effect is stronger than
1:03:02 your drugs with all due respect because
1:03:05 we've already spoken about this i'm not
1:03:06 sure if you remember
1:03:07 er
1:03:08 the the royal society of i don't know
1:03:10 what it is there's a there's a group of
1:03:12 drugs called ssris okay this is if you
1:03:14 go to the doctor and say you have
1:03:15 depression for long enough they will
1:03:17 give you something called ssris
1:03:19 which are a group of drugs like
1:03:20 cetalopram for example that one of the
1:03:23 most famous ones are prozac or whatever
1:03:24 you know whatever and then
1:03:27 they will see how how do you feel after
1:03:28 six months six weeks six months whatever
1:03:30 now
1:03:31 when they did the trials on this drug
1:03:34 they found
1:03:35 that 30 percent of people who were given
1:03:37 the placebo drug responded that they had
1:03:40 an inc
1:03:40 their lives have improved
1:03:43 and now the 50 of the ones who have been
1:03:46 given the real drugs in their lives have
1:03:47 improved now if you notice there's more
1:03:49 of a differential between the
1:03:51 the placebo group and
1:03:53 the placebo group and the ones who so
1:03:55 basically the ones who have taken the
1:03:56 sugar tablet a fake tablet yeah
1:03:59 and uh
1:04:01 between that
1:04:02 and uh and so basically the thought of
1:04:05 having a drug than
1:04:07 the drug and the placebo because the
1:04:08 drug in the placebo is 20 different
1:04:21 placebo had that improvement which means
1:04:23 that there's a difference between
1:04:25 there's 20 difference between uh placebo
1:04:27 and drug and a 30 difference between no
1:04:30 no placebo and placebo which means
1:04:32 there's more of a difference between no
1:04:33 placebo placebo than there is between
1:04:35 political and truck which means it's
1:04:36 more to do with the mind than anything
1:04:37 else
1:04:38 basically and if you if you have
1:04:41 a pessimistic attitude you will have a
1:04:43 pessimistic result if you have a
1:04:44 negative attitude you have a negative
1:04:46 result
1:04:48 it's a lot of depression and good you
1:04:50 know all of it is to do with the way you
1:04:52 perceive things
1:04:53 you know if you change the way you think
1:04:55 and this is by the way one of the
1:04:56 premises of cognitive behavioral therapy
1:04:58 you know which which is i think maybe a
1:05:01 little bit more sophisticated than the
1:05:02 talking cure and a bit more guided yeah
1:05:05 but it's on the nhs you can if someone
1:05:07 has issues you can get it free of the
1:05:09 charge but the point is is that islam
1:05:11 has things in place for this
1:05:14 which moves us on to the fourth point
1:05:16 the idea of depression in islam so what
1:05:17 what do you think
1:05:20 what comments you want to make about
1:05:21 depression is it the case with someone
1:05:23 who's depressed do we consider them to
1:05:25 be uh have low faith
1:05:30 or so what
1:05:33 i've been talking about i kind of want
1:05:34 to speak on this one as well yeah
1:05:36 because yeah because like um
1:05:38 you know like uh at the same time have
1:05:40 been sadness yeah so like there's two
1:05:41 examples that come to my mind the first
1:05:43 one is like the story
1:05:45 in the quran yeah like no one's going to
1:05:46 say he's lacking in him because he's a
1:05:47 nebby he's got more in mind and all of
1:05:49 us put together right you know he's been
1:05:51 like you know engaging with the malala i
1:05:52 can do these kind of things yeah but
1:05:54 like when he like both of his sons he
1:05:56 loses both of them yeah like he he goes
1:05:58 into a very very depressed day and even
1:06:00 his sons are telling him that you know
1:06:01 you're going to drive himself to
1:06:02 destruction all these kind of things
1:06:03 because he's upset because that means
1:06:04 that that kind of sadness but that
1:06:06 sadness was always kind of like checked
1:06:08 by you know his if he's a man that you
1:06:10 know solomon jamie that patience is
1:06:12 beautiful you know uh
1:06:14 perhaps allah will bring my sons back
1:06:16 and all this kind of thing so he's
1:06:17 saying that stuff as well but it's
1:06:18 optimism yeah exactly and the second one
1:06:21 is uh like the sahaba after the process
1:06:24 yeah because as far as like catastrophes
1:06:26 that people have like i think it's even
1:06:27 in a hadith that this is like the
1:06:28 greatest calamity that um was going to
1:06:29 fall upon
1:06:30 and like people like
1:06:32 like you have to leave you can even stay
1:06:34 in the place because he's remembering
1:06:36 that this is walking all these kind of
1:06:37 things and so like feeling sad in and of
1:06:40 itself is just is part of life and
1:06:42 that's the way it's kind of gonna kind
1:06:43 of gonna go but
1:06:45 like what islam provides is like a way
1:06:47 to
1:06:48 a way to understand and deal with that
1:06:49 kind of sadness that you're going to
1:06:51 face afflictions
1:06:52 but you recognize that that's
1:06:54 like you know uh
1:06:59 that you don't become
1:07:00 sort of like uncontrollably upset and
1:07:02 you you go into the depths and all these
1:07:04 kind of things based on that which you
1:07:05 don't have and you don't become proud
1:07:06 and arrogant based on that what you do
1:07:08 have like there's a way to understand it
1:07:10 and it's so it kind of if you think of
1:07:12 it like a graph yeah it kind of just
1:07:13 like it shrinks it brings together the
1:07:14 peaks and the troughs kind of thing and
1:07:16 so it's like
1:07:17 yeah it kind of mediates it like that
1:07:18 that way and it's it's very very
1:07:19 powerful like
1:07:21 how human beings looked beautiful i
1:07:22 think as well they articulated any any
1:07:25 any other points on that is good that's
1:07:26 very good and using jacob or jacob as a
1:07:30 as a template here obviously
1:07:31 that when he lost his son
1:07:34 he went blind
1:07:36 i mean what kind of thing
1:07:37 what would the doctor modern doctor say
1:07:39 about that they would say this is severe
1:07:41 depression
1:07:42 look at mario
1:07:44 you know she said
1:07:45 yeah later he could to admit to kabul
1:07:47 azaleko nissi and mancilla i wish i
1:07:50 would have been dead before this
1:07:52 and long ago if a modern doctor have
1:07:54 heard this he would say what say this is
1:07:56 a suicidal
1:07:57 contemplations right
1:07:59 this is mario malaya right but there was
1:08:02 one particular hadith by the way which i
1:08:04 came across
1:08:05 which i never thought of in this way
1:08:07 until i came across it in this way you
1:08:08 know
1:08:09 which is the hadith which is one of the
1:08:10 most profound hadees which actually go
1:08:12 back to point number two which we were
1:08:14 talking about which is the
1:08:15 insignificance of hayato dunya of the
1:08:17 the worldly life
1:08:19 it says that
1:08:21 that one of you will be in the day of
1:08:24 judgment
1:08:26 will be one of the most
1:08:28 happy
1:08:30 happy
1:08:31 disbelievers
1:08:33 and that they will be put into heaven
1:08:35 sorry they will be put into hell
1:08:37 and they will say i have never had a
1:08:40 good day at all
1:08:43 and then had these states
1:08:46 and one of you will be ashkar
1:08:48 ahlal janna
1:08:50 the one who is the most depressed of the
1:08:52 people of jannah
1:08:53 and he will put into jannah
1:08:55 and he and he will say i would never um
1:08:58 i've never had a
1:08:59 bad day i've never had a i've never had
1:09:02 yeah yeah dipped into it yeah yeah
1:09:04 they'll be dipped into it
1:09:07 hardship after that but so this unless
1:09:10 you know that's very interesting because
1:09:11 if you look at it like formula we've all
1:09:12 gone through tests and trials in our
1:09:14 life
1:09:14 do you guys would you agree that anytime
1:09:16 you've overcome that trial it's as if it
1:09:19 never happened
1:09:20 like once you've just come out of it and
1:09:23 let's say your door has been answered
1:09:24 whatever it may be you look back and
1:09:26 it's as if it never happened and it's
1:09:27 the same thing when you talk think about
1:09:29 when allah says when we dip him into
1:09:30 jannah but when allah answers a dua for
1:09:32 example something that you was longing
1:09:34 for or whatever it may be you finally
1:09:36 have it
1:09:37 it's as if the things that you went
1:09:38 through before
1:09:40 it's it's long gone it's like forgotten
1:09:41 it was never happened or the quran
1:09:43 actually says
1:09:51 that when we when we
1:09:53 make the human being we taste and give
1:09:55 them a taste of mercy
1:09:57 then we take that mercy away from them
1:09:59 he is
1:10:00 he's hopeless and
1:10:02 ungrateful
1:10:03 allah exposes
1:10:05 the nature of the fragile nature of the
1:10:06 human psyche in the quran
1:10:09 where
1:10:10 you know
1:10:12 either
1:10:12 jesus
1:10:17 human being is is created in a state of
1:10:19 anxiety
1:10:20 that if good happens to him
1:10:22 his is you know uh sorry if bad happens
1:10:24 to him he's overly anxious if bad if
1:10:26 good happens to him is very preventative
1:10:28 stingy almost except for the ones who
1:10:30 are
1:10:31 regular in their prayers and so on but
1:10:33 the point is
1:10:34 going back to this
1:10:38 the most depressed of the people of
1:10:39 jannah
1:10:42 the if the hadith says the most
1:10:43 oppressed the people of general that
1:10:44 means you can have people that are
1:10:45 depressed and go to germany
1:10:49 so if it's ash
1:10:51 right
1:10:52 so
1:10:53 which means you can depression you
1:10:55 cannot say that a muslim
1:10:58 a good muslim cannot be depressed
1:11:00 because this hadith says that the one
1:11:02 who is asha the one who is the most
1:11:05 depressed of that gender which means by
1:11:07 the way there's a sliding scale of
1:11:08 depression people there are some people
1:11:10 that are going to be more depressed than
1:11:11 others because ashkar is comparative
1:11:13 and this one is the most depressed of
1:11:15 them and he's going to be going into
1:11:16 jannah
1:11:19 by the way in psychology they
1:11:21 differentiate between something called
1:11:22 transitory sadness and depression and
1:11:25 usually it differentiates it between
1:11:26 time period so in psychology it's like
1:11:28 okay after six months you're now
1:11:29 depressed if you're still persisting in
1:11:31 the feeling and so on
1:11:33 and and it's it's actually characterized
1:11:35 by certain things lack of motivation you
1:11:37 know they have their own
1:11:39 kind of way of categorizing it but if
1:11:42 someone who's a muslim this is very
1:11:43 important for pastoral sayings comes and
1:11:45 says i'm facing depression
1:11:48 and then some some muslim person says
1:11:50 well actually i don't think you are i
1:11:51 don't think there's such a thing as
1:11:52 depression
1:11:54 he's actually going against the hadith
1:11:55 so what do you mean uh nothing is
1:11:57 oppression
1:11:59 what do you mean by that there's a you
1:12:00 you cannot be in the state of
1:12:02 or a sadness
1:12:05 with a hadith you can and that there
1:12:07 will be people that go to jannah right i
1:12:09 think you're complaining some issues
1:12:10 here because the thing is look there's
1:12:12 two issues where he said some scholars
1:12:13 come and say
1:12:15 you can't be depressed which is hajib
1:12:17 because there's so much even the process
1:12:18 when the revelation stopped and allah
1:12:20 said revelation exactly yeah to console
1:12:22 him good point um and then you have the
1:12:24 other extreme which we talked about
1:12:24 liberals about
1:12:26 maybe i i believe they're another
1:12:27 extreme where they
1:12:28 negate religion from the depression
1:12:32 so what they do is they say okay there's
1:12:34 a muslim and he's depressed um he um
1:12:38 he can be depressed while being um
1:12:41 being like
1:12:42 they they divorced the
1:12:44 religious element
1:12:46 to his depression
1:12:48 it's as if they are saying basically his
1:12:50 cure
1:12:50 is not in islam and that's very
1:12:53 dangerous
1:12:54 because what you're necessarily saying
1:12:56 is that the cure is in islam uh
1:12:58 basically he's just been depressed this
1:12:59 is a meant what does that mean because
1:13:01 are you trying to say that yes islam has
1:13:03 no that's isn't that another extreme
1:13:05 when you talk about that look here's the
1:13:06 thing if
1:13:08 we've got the final terms right so if
1:13:09 depression is seen as a as a prolonged
1:13:12 state of sadness
1:13:13 okay and that which means that you lack
1:13:15 motivation stuff like that
1:13:17 if this is what we understand by it
1:13:19 there's no contradiction in believing
1:13:20 that someone can maintain faith
1:13:23 and also have that feeling
1:13:24 and i think it will be i'll be honest
1:13:26 with you right i think sometimes when we
1:13:28 sell islam
1:13:29 we do so disingenuously
1:13:31 like okay become muslim
1:13:33 and you and you'll never face a
1:13:34 depressed place that's that's not true
1:13:36 right but what about what we divide into
1:13:38 two categories being depressed with iman
1:13:41 and being depressed without iman
1:13:43 because most of these prophets and like
1:13:45 people righteous people are
1:13:47 they've gone through depression with
1:13:49 iman our issue is with muslims who when
1:13:52 they come and a lot of people come to us
1:13:53 i'm depressed
1:13:54 why are you depressed brother you know i
1:13:56 wanna and then you listen to him
1:13:58 carefully like brother your depression
1:13:59 is somewhat really silly
1:14:01 like for example
1:14:02 one guy said he came he was it was more
1:14:04 like a little kind of road guy and he
1:14:05 was like you know i want you know this
1:14:07 and this kind of lifestyle i said
1:14:08 look at your depression
1:14:10 like the pressure is sad but what you're
1:14:12 sad is the wrong reasons you can find
1:14:14 what you're
1:14:15 trying to chase here allah promises you
1:14:17 something better you can get rid of that
1:14:19 however let's suppose argument's saying
1:14:21 somebody wants to be famous or whatever
1:14:23 whatever whatever and he's upset because
1:14:24 he can't gain that he goes into
1:14:26 depression because he can't acquire that
1:14:27 once you come and tell this guy the
1:14:29 greater purpose of life and he abundance
1:14:31 that he's got rid of his depression and
1:14:33 he's adopted the lifestyle where he
1:14:35 knows his focus and these things are
1:14:36 just dunya material yes but then he can
1:14:39 as a practicing person fall into
1:14:40 depression where allah tests him he
1:14:42 loses a loved one they're not the same
1:14:44 thing so can we say yeah again
1:14:46 so some people's depression can be
1:14:48 caused by reasons which are are
1:14:49 non-islamic yes
1:14:51 islam so in that case the cure if the
1:14:54 person is able to readjust their thought
1:14:55 process then hopefully he would say that
1:14:58 they're pushing himself however
1:14:59 sometimes it's not as simplistic as that
1:15:00 and i'll say something else
1:15:02 islam doesn't and we've got to be
1:15:04 careful what we promise
1:15:06 because you know the area which says
1:15:07 ella basically let us
1:15:09 that you know with the remembrance of
1:15:10 god do hearts find rest
1:15:12 doesn't mean that you'll be cured from
1:15:13 all kinds of grief and depression
1:15:16 i believe they're not being tested right
1:15:17 right so but but this is what what is
1:15:18 slab office is the following right it
1:15:20 doesn't offer cures to mental issues
1:15:24 that you're going to have whether it's
1:15:25 grief or depression or anxiety or any of
1:15:27 those things
1:15:28 if allah wills he can give you those
1:15:30 things and you can have full iman
1:15:32 but what it does give you
1:15:34 is meaning and purpose to that
1:15:35 depression
1:15:37 that's what islam gives you
1:15:39 and that that's the guarantee that's the
1:15:40 only guarantee you can make
1:15:42 that's the hadith of wanderers is the
1:15:44 affair of the believer
1:15:50 in
1:15:55 is the favor of the believer that all of
1:15:57 his favor his affairs are good and
1:16:00 that's not the case for anyone except
1:16:01 for the believer if good happens to him
1:16:03 then he is thankful if bad happens to
1:16:04 him he is patient and thankful
1:16:07 now the point is is that
1:16:09 uh as you said
1:16:13 you know do people think that you know
1:16:15 they'll be left to say i believe and
1:16:16 they will not be tested
1:16:18 uh so the the allah can decide to test a
1:16:21 person with grief and with depression
1:16:23 with anxiety and all those things
1:16:25 for the person who's a movement a
1:16:27 believer
1:16:28 who believes in islam in the last day
1:16:30 what we can guarantee is that that will
1:16:32 be a meaningful process unlike nihilists
1:16:36 nihilists say all of it is meaningless
1:16:38 we say every single thing that is going
1:16:40 you're going through is meaningful
1:16:43 now that itself as a concept for many
1:16:45 people might be enough to get them out
1:16:47 of depression
1:16:48 it may be but it's not guaranteed
1:16:51 and by the way i have to say i have to
1:16:52 say this
1:16:54 if we don't get this right we're going
1:16:55 to expose our ignorance because there
1:16:57 are some things like for example there
1:16:59 are some disorders out there
1:17:00 which are completely involuntary
1:17:04 borderline personality disorder bipolar
1:17:06 disorder
1:17:08 um
1:17:09 multiple personality disorder
1:17:12 people are sometimes put in states where
1:17:14 they are in extended states of
1:17:16 depression for more than two three four
1:17:18 months and it has nothing to do with how
1:17:20 they think
1:17:22 it has nothing to do it's like oh you
1:17:24 can tell them but they will continually
1:17:26 have manic episodes and then they'll
1:17:28 plunge into depressed depressed episodes
1:17:30 their mood will change
1:17:32 and you you cannot we cannot afford to
1:17:35 say to them that islam if you believe in
1:17:37 it properly you will no longer have
1:17:39 these uh episodes so you'll no longer be
1:17:41 depressed you'll no longer be manic
1:17:42 you're know that's impossible for us to
1:17:44 uh say that
1:17:46 you see and it so this is an extreme
1:17:48 because the extreme is will will solve
1:17:50 all your mental health issues with a
1:17:51 spiritual cure sometimes allah wants to
1:17:53 put you through the trial of
1:17:56 bipolar disorder or multiple personality
1:17:58 disorder or uh you know uh schizophrenia
1:18:01 these things are chemical they they
1:18:03 happen in the brain they affect
1:18:05 neurotransmitters sometimes they there's
1:18:07 a physiological effect there's an
1:18:09 interplay
1:18:10 and allah he puts you through that
1:18:12 because it's a test for you this we
1:18:14 cannot say well if you if you do this
1:18:16 amount of prayers or this amount of you
1:18:18 might do all the prayers
1:18:20 you might have all the right beliefs but
1:18:22 you will not evade that pain
1:18:24 and i know that sounds like a you know
1:18:26 whatever it might sound like right but
1:18:28 what we can say you may never be able to
1:18:30 evade the pain
1:18:32 likewise with grief
1:18:34 likewise with depression and anxiety
1:18:36 like what but you can make sense of the
1:18:38 pain
1:18:39 islam allows you to make sense of it
1:18:42 rather than
1:18:44 rather than it gives you a false cure
1:18:47 like you're some kind of psychologist
1:18:49 because
1:18:50 if that was the case there would never
1:18:51 be you know an issue
1:18:53 all those people who have all these
1:18:54 illnesses or just coming there
1:18:56 their prayers would solve the issues it
1:18:58 doesn't it doesn't actually happen like
1:18:59 that it doesn't work like that the
1:19:01 prayer
1:19:02 is a spiritual thing and it does put you
1:19:04 on a certain
1:19:06 it gives you a tama nina yes it gives
1:19:07 you a yes which means it gives you
1:19:09 tranquility but
1:19:11 if allah wants to put you through grief
1:19:13 he you will go through grief
1:19:15 if he wants to put you through
1:19:16 depression you will go there you have to
1:19:18 ride out
1:19:19 and sometimes knowing that and you can
1:19:20 you can accept that and sometimes
1:19:22 acceptance of that fact
1:19:24 is in fact uh
1:19:26 it helps you out it helps
1:19:29 but like you know we were talking about
1:19:31 one more thing with the
1:19:32 counseling approach the prophet
1:19:34 sometimes
1:19:35 used to give salah he used to have a
1:19:37 counseling approach
1:19:38 and we have to look at that very
1:19:39 carefully
1:19:40 because when the people came to him and
1:19:42 they were talking about how they were
1:19:43 being tortured in mecca
1:19:45 yet he did entertain the pain and he did
1:19:48 respect their pain and the ayat came
1:19:50 down about their pain but he also gave
1:19:52 them where there are pains there's this
1:19:54 people's pain out there which is more
1:19:56 like the back in the days that people
1:19:57 used to be combed with uh
1:20:00 you know this hadith you know with like
1:20:01 uh
1:20:02 i don't know comb
1:20:04 metal combs and they have their bodies
1:20:06 so he made them visualize something even
1:20:07 worse than what they're going through
1:20:08 yeah the skin peeled off with the so in
1:20:10 other words sometimes having an approach
1:20:13 where you not trivializing the pain but
1:20:15 letting them see that there's worse
1:20:17 sometimes that can help but this would
1:20:18 never be used
1:20:20 in either cbt or the psychoanalytic
1:20:22 approach but that's something we would
1:20:24 have to add but it should be because you
1:20:25 know allah says if you are grateful
1:20:28 i will increase you you know yes
1:20:29 increasing what a lot of people think
1:20:30 this is wealth for some reason they feel
1:20:31 like if i'm grateful allah give me more
1:20:33 increase you in what increase increase
1:20:34 your gratitude maybe we can be i'm
1:20:36 saying
1:20:37 you become more grateful you know and
1:20:38 there's a little process of he said do
1:20:40 not look at those above you because
1:20:42 you'll be ungrateful look at those below
1:20:44 you because anytime you look at someone
1:20:45 that doesn't have what you have you're
1:20:47 grateful any time you look at someone
1:20:48 that has something you don't have you
1:20:50 start complaining
1:20:53 i feel like that's like that gratitude
1:20:55 gratitude i think that by the way i
1:20:57 think gratitude is one of the most
1:20:58 underrated things because even like
1:21:00 psychological literature on it
1:21:02 it has shown that
1:21:04 the gratitude well by the way
1:21:06 optimism in all angles there was this
1:21:07 athlete remember he's a non-muslim yeah
1:21:09 and he got cancer he was on his death
1:21:11 and he goes someone said to him do you
1:21:12 ever say why me he goes did i ever say
1:21:15 why me when i won the gold medal did i
1:21:16 say ever why me when i don't know he was
1:21:18 listening all things why should i say
1:21:20 why me now and he's a disbeliever
1:21:22 you know it's it's crazy and yeah but
1:21:25 yeah absolutely and you know talk about
1:21:26 why i'll end with one thing that
1:21:28 nietzsche said
1:21:29 which you said
1:21:30 that if there is a how
1:21:32 if there's sorry if you have a why yeah
1:21:35 almost any how is possible and for a
1:21:37 pessimistic man that is a very
1:21:39 optimistic
1:21:47 someone said to me um when i first
1:21:49 started out
1:21:50 he said to me uh figure out your why
1:21:52 like why you want to do tao or whatever
1:21:54 leave the how to allah even better
1:21:57 please call me here
1:22:00 and with that bombshell note
1:22:04 that i have
1:22:06 [Laughter]