Non Muslims Practice Polygamy (2017-03-01) ​

0:00:00 Kiska means they come to us and all you
0:00:01 look symptomatic for watching and I'm
0:00:03 not showing today
0:00:04 no Moses Baptist polygamy they practiced
0:00:07 I don't care what anyone says how many
0:00:09 guys are these statistics show this they
0:00:11 have side chains they have mistresses
0:00:15 it's not right but the thing is they do
0:00:18 they go and cheat on their wives left
0:00:21 right center Islam says no you can't go
0:00:25 and use another female for your sexual
0:00:28 desires
0:00:28 you can't go today I'm just reading
0:00:30 usually because you know that's what I
0:00:32 want that allowed us for many reasons if
0:00:35 entry comes read I'll repeat it but many
0:00:37 reasons one of them is if you're going
0:00:39 to do it you do it like a man
0:00:40 yeah now this doesn't mean if a sister's
0:00:42 you don't to share husband good you
0:00:44 don't have to nobody said you're gonna
0:00:45 get killed
0:00:46 yeah you know what I mean you don't have
0:00:50 to you know you don't need to allow your
0:00:53 husband to American let's come there's
0:00:55 even if it in the even states in the
0:00:56 contract and always get married again
0:00:58 simple as you can translate but however
0:01:01 if you know is all the same no that
0:01:07 wasn't they they practice this yet so
0:01:09 basically we as Muslims we it has gotta
0:01:12 be done has to be done in the right way
0:01:13 you have to give her the rights
0:01:15 yeah you can treat her like a mistress
0:01:18 or sanction whatever you you have to
0:01:20 give her a right you have to treat their
0:01:21 ego and brothers laugh and act like it's
0:01:23 all fun again it's all happy day but
0:01:25 there is a narration that says a if a
0:01:27 husband doesn't treat the wives equally
0:01:29 if you favor one month is up in the
0:01:31 theaters when you will come leaning on
0:01:33 one side yeah
0:01:34 so let's consequences it's not that more
0:01:36 happy days this that it's not that easy
0:01:37 you can try to say and also today
0:01:39 unfortunately the Asian committees here
0:01:41 produce adaptable models of hacks
0:01:43 damaged a biryani yeah what what what
0:01:47 the thing is racism
0:01:48 unfortunately racism is
0:01:50 big yeah the most distant then watch
0:01:54 this is a lockdown a like they're
0:01:55 like garbage yeah it's disgusting
0:01:57 behavior
0:01:59 you know so if there is a brother who is
0:02:01 willing to marry that stuff because that
0:02:04 sister has needs financial need sexual
0:02:06 needs you know means someone is a
0:02:07 companion there someone to be a fatherly
0:02:09 figure to her kids this is important um
0:02:12 trying to see so Islam is there to set
0:02:15 odors in case of scenarios you don't try
0:02:17 to say almost want to has given us a
0:02:18 solution what's the solution with other
0:02:20 religions and establish all reason where
0:02:23 else one sitting for not married trim
0:02:24 squeeze them forth if you can only just
0:02:26 marry only one and it's other servers it
0:02:28 was all sort of says indeed you're not
0:02:30 gonna be just you know so it is hard but
0:02:33 there's many wisdoms behind it if that
0:02:35 makes sense and there's no other news
0:02:36 about Number bed liner I just a few
0:02:38 plates him just one first of all like
0:02:40 and for us you're saying this is always
0:02:43 I ask myself when people ask me
0:02:45 questions who's asking the question so
0:02:46 if it's an atheist asking that question
0:02:48 the question would be what kind of what
0:02:51 kind of restrictions does the atheistic
0:02:54 worldview have on Ligonier if it's the
0:02:56 liberal asking that question someone who
0:02:58 believes in liberal philosophy what kind
0:03:00 of restrictions as liberal as an animus
0:03:02 muscle go by legal liberalism I'm
0:03:04 talking about philosophical liberalism
0:03:06 in fact atheism nor a theism nor
0:03:09 liberalism should have any restrictions
0:03:11 on polygamy whether it's from a man or a
0:03:13 woman but to be honest I'm also hoping
0:03:15 that sounds especially if it sounds like
0:03:17 the guidelines are clear but from an
0:03:19 atheistic perspective or a liberal
0:03:21 perspective
0:03:21 polygamy is completely stay again for
0:03:24 everyone and frankly you can say this
0:03:26 there will be a spiritual a disincentive
0:03:28 for someone there's all saying okay this
0:03:31 is guilt I feel guilty according to the
0:03:33 majority of philosophers and
0:03:34 psychologists like Freud he wrote a book
0:03:36 called civilization and its discontents
0:03:38 this book I mean he says it should take
0:03:43 over the it is one of the the primal
0:03:45 self you know the the beast eale self
0:03:48 really if that should take over guilt
0:03:50 and his eyes should be demolished all
0:03:53 the all the barriers if created for
0:03:54 gills should be taken down and this is
0:03:57 what you're going to find with new age
0:03:59 kind of
0:03:59 slash liberalism is kind of like an
0:04:02 upgraded headin ISM so there is no first
0:04:05 of all from an atheistic paradigm or
0:04:07 from a liberal paradigm there is no way
0:04:10 anyone could argue that it's immoral
0:04:12 objectively speaking that - for polygamy
0:04:16 to take place a liberalism doesn't
0:04:18 disallow it only Liberal government's
0:04:20 have disallowed it that's the difference
0:04:21 number two if you look at it from the
0:04:23 previous dispensations and other
0:04:25 religions you'll find that it's commonly
0:04:27 practiced in all of the other world
0:04:29 religions in fact with no exception or
0:04:32 the major world religions with no
0:04:34 exception the six major world religions
0:04:36 all of them have a billy goat Sandman
0:04:38 Christianity you know obviously as you
0:04:40 know Solomon had 300 whites
0:04:43 I mean Abraham had three wives and Jesus
0:04:46 has come and said in Matthews I've not
0:04:48 come to do away with the law the
0:04:49 prophets I've come to affirm them and
0:04:51 that is why you'll find that Anabaptist
0:04:53 juror community which is a special type
0:04:55 of Christian community enforce polygamy
0:04:58 so it's only a historical thing that
0:05:00 polygamy was outlawed from a Christian
0:05:02 perspective Christianity and Judaism and
0:05:04 Judaism the ready Jews they practiced
0:05:06 polygamy in Hindu and Hindu scripture
0:05:08 there's many different verses of their
0:05:11 gods having 16,000 wives you know ten
0:05:13 thousand Murata one thousand chav sex
0:05:17 slaves distances that's all completely
0:05:19 normal in their in their paradigm as for
0:05:22 Sikhism I think six of the eleven or
0:05:25 twelve gurus when polygamous
0:05:27 relationships so almost no a world
0:05:29 religion or what no well paradigm which
0:05:31 is popularized today this allows
0:05:34 polygamy you'll find that from all of
0:05:36 the world religions and all the world
0:05:38 paradigms which are popularized Islam
0:05:40 actually has the Muslims the irony of it
0:05:41 has the most restriction when it comes
0:05:44 to this practice and I'll tell you the
0:05:45 restrictions because it says thank you
0:05:47 how matter by lack of men in the second
0:05:48 lesson also a thought about it says
0:05:50 marry who you will from the a by the way
0:05:53 just as a side note this verse came down
0:05:55 which is another added irony it came
0:05:57 down talking about helping often people
0:06:01 often women in general by the way the
0:06:04 Koran puts a special emphasis on
0:06:06 but often girls you know so it has
0:06:09 positive discrimination yes for orphan
0:06:12 girls rather than boys
0:06:13 so when they often girls get older and
0:06:15 obviously a pubescent that is when the
0:06:18 quran from this perspective you know
0:06:20 advisement to marry who you want from
0:06:23 from the orphan girls or or from the
0:06:26 woman generally two three and four
0:06:28 why don't have the right let's have a
0:06:30 look iraq of why has an arm of allocate
0:06:31 a metal comb so if you can't if you fear
0:06:34 that you even fear that you can't do
0:06:36 justice to marry one only one or where
0:06:39 you are I am possessive now the point
0:06:40 here is important first of all there is
0:06:43 a you could say there's a kind of
0:06:45 warning no crime issues against polygamy
0:06:47 there's no doubt it's not a small back
0:06:50 which means is allowed in Islam it's not
0:06:52 what's to happen it's not fun it's not
0:06:54 something which is recommended nor is it
0:06:56 something which is obviously compulsory
0:06:58 and as Ali said I mean this is
0:07:00 definitely the case and the solves all
0:07:02 the problems with women necessarily and
0:07:03 this is actually quite an interesting
0:07:06 thing which is specialized to the
0:07:07 Islamic discourse it look Adama which is
0:07:09 one of the major scholars of Islam
0:07:11 they're one of the email of their humbly
0:07:13 mother he quotes and others like it you
0:07:15 know if you look at MIT called staff for
0:07:18 women decides to if there's a contract
0:07:20 basically before the marriage and the
0:07:22 almond decides I don't wanna get married
0:07:23 if you can't get married to a second or
0:07:24 third wife of this madman basically the
0:07:27 moment the man goes and tries to get
0:07:29 married to a second wife is the the
0:07:30 annulment of the marriage will commence
0:07:32 by the way this with this ensures from
0:07:35 from the woman's perspective and that
0:07:38 the man doesn't get back to a second
0:07:40 wife in more of a way then would be the
0:07:42 case from an atheistic paradigm because
0:07:44 when atheistic paradigm how is she
0:07:46 how does she know what he's telling her
0:07:47 is true if he says I love you own and I
0:07:50 want to be with you Father I mean he
0:07:51 doesn't have any real objective
0:07:52 spiritual incentive objective spiritual
0:07:54 incentive morality which is objective
0:07:56 that would stop him from going to
0:07:59 different woman multiple partners fact I
0:08:01 was in the gym recently and that's how
0:08:04 hollow like those a guy is married with
0:08:07 kids innocent that and literally
0:08:09 becoming fool now he started telling me
0:08:12 like he started telling the other guys
0:08:13 as all day you know yeah she let me go
0:08:15 to Ibiza she let me talk about wife and
0:08:17 then and then the other guy us and we
0:08:19 gonna do that and then he started
0:08:21 exposing himself you know I'm gonna go
0:08:22 here's happened now how do we know that
0:08:25 people are not just and this is the
0:08:27 things the problem is that naivety can
0:08:29 overcome somebody and they are assuming
0:08:32 using emotional judgments that this man
0:08:35 is always going to be loyal to me but
0:08:38 not realizing that the sociological
0:08:39 statistics show that you know being
0:08:43 unfaithful to something which is a
0:08:44 common feature of the of the Western
0:08:47 paradigm so generally speaking of the
0:08:50 Western experience so generally speaking
0:08:52 here I think that in a nutshell
0:08:55 aslam has real restrictions output for
0:08:57 this but at the same time it's moba is
0:09:00 the same time as allowed if certain
0:09:02 things are put in place and I don't see
0:09:05 how that could be used as an evidence
0:09:06 against Islam unless you have an
0:09:07 objective reasoning to show that
0:09:10 polygamy is wrong on an objective level
0:09:12 which you can never do for lazy sickness
0:09:13 but yeah it's true and also if for
0:09:16 example one guy his chin on is y ou go
0:09:20 mistress whatever what's the weapon to
0:09:22 call police
0:09:22 please go put a name it was this one he
0:09:26 was arrested come in Oscar
0:09:28 so the thing is for example in Islam if
0:09:30 the first wife is okay yet and the wife
0:09:35 for him to get married again it filled
0:09:37 them okay you too
0:09:38 why is it like no no no it's there okay
0:09:42 look at this that next mark on her body
0:09:44 ten girlfriends yeah happy days good she
0:09:47 on your wife mistresses good
0:09:49 well this car comes to do in the write
0:09:51 my novel but he Thomas E is absolute
0:09:54 true I'm sorry in this country there's
0:09:56 no law it's for from treating on your
0:09:58 wife
0:09:58 I mean think there isn't what we doing
0:10:00 it we gonna get the point is why is it
0:10:02 the case where a man can actually have a
0:10:04 polygamous relationship with
0:10:06 hundred over a thousand members and
0:10:08 given them their rights yeah this is
0:10:09 really important for this time came to
0:10:11 protect the rights of people respecting
0:10:14 that female you can't go at a loser if
0:10:17 you marry this time if you marry
0:10:18 somebody with the intentions of divorced
0:10:20 it's Haram if you said no than just
0:10:23 maria user it surrounded committing zina
0:10:25 well she won't meet your people you
0:10:27 would be for that intention